ok i must explain this.. there this guy mike well he means the world to me and such well you wonder what my promblem is.. well he use to live here i never had feelings for him like this well he left 3 years ago and then right after he left i got feelings for him.. he knows the feelings and he has feelings too.. well the promblem is he don't live here anymore and he said to me he might come back for christmas and such.. now my question is what should i do when he comes?? be up front with him and explain my feelings because he knows the feelings already?? my worst fear right now is him coming then him having to leave and he mention to my mom that he might bring up me going with him and staying with him... so what should i do?? i love this guy and he is so sweet and everything just these feelings wont go away and he knows about the feelings already... and should i go with him to stay with him?? i know we might not end up together but its worth a shot right?? someone help please!!!
2006-11-14 12:50:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 20 he is 20 about to turn 21!!
2006-11-14 12:56:28 · update #1
i agree with previous said "he needs to take a few more trips down to see you and then see where things go from there" .. im in similar situation but am i ready? are you ready? i say have few few more dates.. and if he still likes you and u still like him.. then u can think about it but it is a bit too early. i sai wait.
2006-11-14 13:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you miss him more than you have feelings for him. Personally.. I wouldn't date or just move in with someone just to see if we hit it off. That's what dating is for. Since he lives far.. There is a saying in spanish.. "amor de lejos amor de pendejos" Which somewhat translates to Love of distance is the love of the stupid.
2006-11-14 21:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if ur under 18 DEF dont do it, trust me, been there done that, it sucks, and if ur over 18 I think he needs to take a few more trips down to see you and then see where things go from there.
2006-11-14 20:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Uninvited_Ideas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH HIM ALREADY!!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 20:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋