Alrit so this guy I have been liking for long, I told him EXACTLY what I felt about him! He blushed A LOT, and DIDNT make eye contact...although, he seemed happy to hear it! What do you think I should do now? I don't want to ask him out because now I suppose it's his choice....+ if he wanted to ask me out...he would have done that right then and there right? So, should I just think that this "crush" is over?!?! Or what??
2006-11-14 12:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**HE IS AWFULLY SHY...HE ACTUALLY RAN AWAY FROM ME ONCE WHEN I ASKED HIM IF I COULD TALK TO HIM (but I think that was because people were pretending we were at the altar)**
2006-11-14 12:39:14 · update #1
just give it a day or so to let it sink in. then he'll decide. if he asks within 3 weeks he actually wants to go out with you. if it takes longer, it is just to make you feel better. but just give him a little tim. he might have lost his nerves to ask, but that's okay, they'll come back if he actually wants to go out with you.
2006-11-14 12:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by live_life_nice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok heres what i would do..wait for a couple of days and if you still haven't heard nothing back from him (it might take hima couple of days to get it all threw his head) then call him back and ask him out and depending on what his answer is then you know weather the crush is over or if its a go...he just could be shy and waiting for you to do the next move
You gotta rememebr this is 2006 and it's alright for girls to ask guys out as well its not always up to the guy to do it..
2006-11-14 20:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not suppose to ask guys out.
WHO re-wrote the rules, anyway?
Girl, move along, he's now embarrased and wants to steer clear of you for a while. You kinda stepped on his manhood by being so forward and direct. Allow him to decide what goes from this point forward. If he doesn't approach you, then let it go.
And the next time you have a crushy on a boyee, just keep it to yourself.
2006-11-14 20:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably just needs time to process what you just told him.
He may be really shy and not sure how to ask you out.
Just give him a day or two and then discuss it and find out how he feels.
2006-11-14 20:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just shy. If you really like him when you see him ask him. Say something simple like "remember what I told you yesterday, how do u feel about me?" Be blunt.It;s much better to know than just to wonder.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 20:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that you told him what you feel.. If he doesn't make his move then he is not really interested and just likes you as a friend. If you are persistent about it then he will just be with you just for the heck of it and eventually use you just for sex..
2006-11-14 20:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by frankie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's really shy, so go ahead and ask him out if you like.
2006-11-14 20:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by MEGAWALRUS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...crush is over... now he's goin to start actin funny...
2006-11-14 20:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by lezbianflava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋