I am a 28 year old attractive male. I used to swing, but I moved out of the US to study and became abstinent for over a year and a half. But, lately people have been making comments that I need to have sex. A relationship sound too complicated. Should I go back to swining when I visit the States?
2006-11-14 12:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by dcm8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, "swinging" was nothing more than a phase in your past which has been grown out of now. Being abstinent seems almost like a sexual fasting which can provide you certain awareness only to which you are knowledgable of, your friends might not be.. Don't go back into swinging. Relationships are whacked enough as it is back here, but don't throw away the experience you have gathered from being outside the states. Try not to let yourself regress into that eccessive instant-gratification process.
good luck
2006-11-14 12:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by mack_cali 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can, but as you probably already know, it's not easy for a single male in the swinger's world because there are so many of them and most are lechorous and disrespectful. A good single male in the Lifestyle is worth his weight in gold, though.
2006-11-15 04:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swinging or swining, hmmmm.....swinging, too dangerous these days. Swining might actually catch less nasty things from a pig. But beastiality may be illegal I'm not sure.
2006-11-14 12:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go back to anything, swinging, casual sex, whatever just because someone makes a comment that you need to have sex, that's a personal decision that only you can make.
2006-11-14 12:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that, in the long run, you'll be much happier in a committed relationship than swinging.
2006-11-14 12:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by ally4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be a personal choice, and if your friends told you that you need to jump off a building would you be considering it? In this case thinkit out for yourself and decide what is right for you.
2006-11-14 12:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by jerofjungle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure why not. See what diseases you can pick up. If you think a relationship is too complicated...wow that is sad.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-14 12:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by ηιgнт ѕтαя 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, but when SWINING, do you get to pick out the actual pig?
2006-11-14 12:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by MisterRE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your typo says it all - swining! Why would you want to go back to piggish behavior?
2006-11-14 12:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are comfortable not being a swinger then don't do this just because other people tell you to. Decide what you want for yourself.
2006-11-14 12:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋