I loved my ex, and i still do, in fact, i am sure she is the one, and i need her back. She broke up with me about 2 months ago and said she wasn't ready for a bf and that i came on a bit two strong when i told her i loved her, i can't live without her...
2006-11-14 12:03:25 · 23 answers · asked by Curt C. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
2006-11-14 13:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kaysea [Electric] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-06 00:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Claudia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bloody hell, Mate. Nothing a woman hates worse than a bloke who says he NEEDs her. It has been two months, and you have made it without her, so why not move on? There are lots of other birds in the park. Technically she wasn't ready for a boyfriend, so I don't think she qualifies as an ex of anything ex cept being the ex possiblities for a train wreck emotionally.
Women like her are enough to support an argument for gayness. I once told a woman so, boy was she @rsed! Oh phreaking well.
And until you find a new one come up with what I call a bachelor's survival strategy:
W@nk more often
Learn to cook
W@nk a bit more
Go to bars
If unlucky w@nk again.
Look at it this way: Since women think we are a bunch of tossers, why not get good at it?
Seriously, I would not chat her up, I would not contact her or her friends. I would be the enigma in her machine.
2006-11-14 12:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 months isn't really long enough for her, if she said she wasn't ready for a boyfriend.
Really, the only thing you can do is keep in contact and keep communication lines open and just be her friend.
Don't come onto her and push to get back together or you'll just chase her away.
If you stay close for a while, when she IS ready for a boyfriend, you'll be there.
But just be prepared for her to possibly tell you she doesn't want to get back together at all, even when she IS ready. Girls can be just as afraid of commitment as guys can. ;)
If THAT happens, you really just need to let her know that you still cared for her even when she didn't want a relationship and you respected that and were happy to have known her and move on.
2006-11-14 12:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been living without her the last 2 months have'nt ya?
If you had'nt been so demanding and needy you would'nt have scared her off.And all I see in your question is you,you,you.If you love her let her go dude.If it was meant to be she'll be back if not then she won't.
Move on.There's no point in you wasting your life away waiting for something that may not happen.Hopefully you've learned to be a little patient and think of others feelings as well as your own.
2006-11-14 12:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't "need" anyone...and you most certainly CAN live without her..you may think she's a one for you...but apparently she doesn't feel the same way and your post here gives complete indication of why...
She said you come on too strong and instead of chilling out and understanding you're way overboard, you're posting to us about "need" and "can't"...
Learn to temper your enthusiasm about the women you date...when you come on too strong it's not flattering, it's just scary and causes you to seem needy and/or obsessive...
Get ahold of yourself...and work on not making your girlfriend (in the future) your whole life...she should be a part of it, not your reason for living...
2006-11-14 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you can live without her.how where you living before you met her.do you know how to live with yourself?have you finished needing yourself and loving yourself?if yes then by now you will know you deserve better.you only told her that you loved her not to get married?If she is not ready for a relationship then look for someone who is.As it is said beauty lies in the arms of the beholder,love and attraction can be acquired you just have to accustom your mind to a different idea,different person.Good luck mate and please get over i.if not it will keep pulling you backwards.
2006-11-14 12:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by lady c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that way you could kidnap her. Use some sort of date rape drug to make her powerless and put a sack....not your own.....over her head. When she is back in your arms tell her again the same dribble you told us and she willfall instantly in love with you. Trust me....this works.
2006-11-14 12:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statements like that are not exactly going to help. Tone it down . Stay in touch with her and don't be pushy. If she likes you and is ready then the romance will blossom. Good luck.
2006-11-14 12:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. It's great to be in love, but for now you have to give her space. For now just be friends and back off. If you're not careful you will really freak her out and she won't want anything to do with you. Good Luck, everything will work out.
2006-11-14 12:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋