i started seein this perfect girl right after she was in this big 2 year relationship. we were gpoin out for probly like 4 months. she backed it off and wanted space. i was cool with this. i wanted her to be comfortable. the space maybe lasted a week and she said she was ready and we fell in love. perfect love. like it was meant to be. just a little while ago she put the brakes on us again. she says she is still not over it. so we are repeating. she tells me she doesnt want me to wait for her because i could be missing out on meeting someone else. when a week b4 she told me she would love me forever. she is a good girl. i want to wait for her, she is worth everything to me, but she feels pressured to hurry because im waiting. we are good friends right now. hang out watch movies and stuff. i should wait right?
2006-11-14 12:02:56 · 14 answers · asked by luckdragon888 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the whole move on and go dating thing... i dont think she means it. she is extrememely selfless. she would say that especially if she was hoping that i didnt.
2006-11-14 12:19:21 · update #1
If you "don't wait" what are you going to do? Meet another great girl tommorow and forget all about his first one? Probably not. If you "do wait" and continue to hang out then you have lost nothing and maybe the friendship will turn into more. Don't turn it into a decision that has to be made right away- leave yourself open to see if this relationship goes furher, or another one comes along in the meantime.
2006-11-14 12:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by jaye580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy and she might be nice too.
But, what are you waiting for, really?
For her to make up her mind which 'game' she wants to play and when?
She sounds a bit confused about what she really wants (and who she wants). In the mean time, you are sitting and waiting and wanting.
Maybe you are destined to just be good friends, at the moment.
She has alternatives happening for herself..........while you wait..............
Maybe don't ditch her as a friend, but find some new ones for yourself. Have some alternatives too.
Complete love comes as a complete package. Not sharing the 'presents' around from that 'package'.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 12:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you should wait - not just for her but yourself also. You need time to ascertain whether she is really interested in you or whether she needed you as an ego-boost and a rebound. If you jump into this too quickly, you may be shattered when she has emotionally moved on from her past relationship to find that she was confused and used you as an emotional prop.
2006-11-14 12:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a date with another girl make sure you talk about ti in front of her. If she is like "I' glad you found someone" then yeah ur a rebound if she gets upset and jealous there is some feelings there.
2006-11-14 12:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, If she is truly yours, or if you were meant to be, she will come back to you, it may be a week, 2 or a month or even a year, but she will be back, but if not....aha! So date sweety, you only have one life to live, it may be hard, I can understand, but ur making the both of you miserable by waiting!
2006-11-14 12:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Veekeey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she gave you good advise.find someone that will share the same feelings with you. if it was meant to be you will find eachother at the end of the line. be patient but go have fun and enjoy life. if she comes back,then she's full of it and using you as a rebound person.dont be fooled by nice girls. take care!
2006-11-14 12:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a bf or gf tells you they want you to go out and meet other people they usually already have.
2006-11-14 12:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by lolabunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is acted like ur over her and just hang out and be friends- then she wont feel pressured- good luck- hope u guys can get together again
2006-11-14 12:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by cayla_152 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem like a good guy.
Go ahead and wait.
But there's a chance someone else can come... don't ignore anyone else who comes. THEY might be the one.
2006-11-14 12:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her and you feel she is worth the wait then yes but you two whould be completely honest with eachother that way no one gets hurt good luck
2006-11-14 12:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋