my boy frined derek says he was getting tired of me to one of my frineds at my frineds birthday party i don't know if i should break up with him or hug and kiss him all the time..
2006-11-14 11:40:30 · 22 answers · asked by littlered102012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget this guy. find a nice guy who cannot live without you and loves you for who you are. why should you change for him?
good luck
2006-11-14 11:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is tired of you now, there is a good chance he will get tired of you again even if you "hug and kiss him all the time." You should try talking to him, but you shouldn't give more than you're willing to give to a guy who doesn't appreciate what you already give; you can find someone who won't always ask for more.
But, people DO say things that they later regret, like he could have been saying it because he thought it would make him cool or something; people do stupid stuff like that (and that would be very stupid), but they don't always mean it which is why you should talk to him before you do anything too big. Good luck.
2006-11-14 19:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Craiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging & kissing him all the time will probably make him feel flustered & trapped but he may not necessarily want to break up with you. He might have told your friend so it got back to you on purpose. This way its out in the open & you can talk about it.
Ask him what's going on & if it can be rectified then maybe a break up is the right thing to do before someone gets even more hurt & upset.
2006-11-14 19:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON HUN......Let no man treat u like a rag..
Plus if you waited until your of marring age to look for a boy friend and not just to have one to get yaself in trouble ya might find a nice boy who will respect you. dont play that game w/ boys they are as im sure ya mom told you out for one thing... why buy the cow if the milk is free?
2006-11-14 19:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by killinshel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it,says u know what he said,maybe its not true you have to find out, maybe its just one aspect not the whole ya,anyway dont be scared open up for discussion, dont fight it gets to no where, if u found out he's really tired of u ask him how u can improve, if he said its really over nothing can be done then u know u did your best, and u have to let him go and move on, the goal here is not to be hung up on it, good luck n dont worry things might not be that bad..
2006-11-14 19:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugs and kisses are like band-aides. this wound wont heal with just band-aids its just to big. he is going to get tired of the kissing, then he'll want more. after that, he's gunna get tired of that. break it off now, before you give away something you would regret just to try and keep the one you love. it's gunna be hard, it's gunna hurt, but its gunna be ok. he needs to learn he can not take you for granted.
2006-11-14 19:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk with him and find out what he is feeling and isn't.
Maybe wear some high heel shoes in bed or do things he likes slightly more often, if you like to do them or at least don't mind doing them.
If it just isn't gonna work out, then forget it.
Take some good uninterrupted discussion time to find out.
2006-11-14 19:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. Don’t break up with him. Spend time with your family, or friends. Do something for your self. Paint your room, or take a kickboxing class, just stay busy he’ll come to his senses.
2006-11-14 19:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by patty89m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him on his way, that's what you should do! Why would you want to hang out with some idiot guy who claims he's "tired" of you? Boo hoo... see if he can find someone better than you. Won't happen, right? (Stand up for yourself... you deserve and will find better!)
2006-11-14 19:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay if he is tired of you move on then maybe you will see how really tired he is after you are gone for a few days
2006-11-14 19:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is tired of you dont put yourself thru the torture let him go move on it wont get any better, if you pay more attention to him hell get sicker of you quicker, trust me i am sick of a guy i know and hes making it worse by giving me to much attention i cant stand him now
2006-11-14 19:43:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋