What would you think if your boyfriend, in response to being asked why he never initiates anything physical, says, "I think you are the most gorgeous girl I've ever dated. Everytime I see you, I'm like, 'Alright, that's my girlfriend.' But, sometimes I just get complacent. I don't think about sex that often, and I don't feel a need to do it that much. Sure, I love it, but, sometimes it's on and off with me."? Is this a reflection on me at all? I mean that maybe he doesn't like me?
2006-11-14 11:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's trying to say he thinks of you as more than just a sex partner.
2006-11-14 11:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it has no reflection on you, it is him that is not sure how he should persue his relationship with you without feeling that he has rushed something which is natural, most men don't initiate the first move they on some cases like for the aggressor to be the women simply because that gets them off. I wouldn't let myself worry about that he will come around in his own time..he might not think about sex that often but this could mean that he is testing the situation or he might be just not ready yet...Just be there and let him take his time and you just be patient.
2006-11-14 11:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's one of the few guys that don't want just sex out of all the girls they date. I'd hold on to him a little longer.
2006-11-14 11:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys truly have a low s.e.x. drive, more often it is a mental thing, sometimes it is hormonal. If he is worried about it ask him to get a blood test to check if it is medical, if he doesn't care he probably JUST DOESN"T CARE and you have to accept it or leave it.
2006-11-14 11:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds young and unsure of himself. He does not want to ruin things with a messy sex encounter.
2006-11-14 11:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like he's sexually insecure. It's no reflection on you at all.
2006-11-14 11:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋