This girls a cutter but, i like her sooooo much, and she really likes the homeboy , but he's not interested and might ask her out for me..... I can't stop thinking about her... And yes she knows I like her, yes she keeps on asking me if I like her, and yes she said were just friends.....And when I ignore her, she trys to grab my attention, were seniors in HS. And ive never have had a girlfriend, and when I try not to think about her, it dosen't work.... I'm so sprung right now........I need help..
2006-11-14 11:30:13 · 8 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a cutter is a hard thing. I have been there,and I just recently found out that my girlfriend was a cutter. I use to cut all the time,for any reason I could find. Once a cutter,always a cutter. I still fight urges to this very day,and knowing that my girl was a cutter..really makes me worry even more now. If you are serious about this girl,then you need to make sure to watch what you say about her cutting. Little things can set her off. Just always be there when she has her moments,and when she does cut,don't sit there and lecture her..sit there and love her,and show her how much you care. Having someone be there for me is what made me want to stop,knowing that someone was always there when I needed to talk.
2006-11-14 11:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you like her. being a cutter however doesn't define her as a person. i used to cut and i deal with the urge to every day. be there for her, she need someone to count on whether she realizes that or not.
ask her out yourself or just stay friends. but whatever you do, always be yourself around her. sounds like she might have a crush on you so just let things happen. good luck.
2006-11-14 19:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by girl. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal that she's a cutter. Let that issue go. And DO NOT have your friend ask her out for you; that's awkward. It sounds to me like she's pretty much into you. Go for it, but do it yourself.
2006-11-14 19:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a chicken s hit. Grab your balls and get some. You are tryin your understanding of badass. Don't screw up and have your friend talk to girls for you
2006-11-14 19:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by M2J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the concept of "love" is mostly just weird psychology and pheremones, you need to ask yourself: "Self, what psychological problem do I have that makes me think I'm in love with a nutcase? Or is it I just want to bone her?"
2006-11-14 19:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think before you give her a relationship, you need to give her some counseling and some help for her problem. ! You need to stop and think about her health before you think about yourself!
2006-11-14 19:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she needs help ...not you
2006-11-14 19:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well......
2006-11-14 19:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Always Jolly AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋