Hey I am 14, never kissed or anything. There is this guy he is 15 and goes to a school right by mine. I have known him for years. Our mothers work together. They are really close friends. Now I just started talking to him again, he is 15 and I am 14. Now he said he has a girlfriend for a year. But he just invided me to go to a movie with him. Now i don't know if i will jepodrize our parents friendship? If he really even has a girlfriend? If i am just blowing this out of perportion? Is this going to be cheeting on his girlfriend? Please help...thanks
2006-11-14 11:27:54 · 9 answers · asked by Alexandra Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you asked him that question? Be upfront and tell him your concerns... open communication is the best start to any relationship, friendship or more....
Relax and have fun.
2006-11-14 11:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you kiss him....it all depends on this....but you need to know not to go out with a guy if he has a girlfriend , if he just wants to be a friend, then no big deal...
2006-11-14 11:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just go out with him find out what we what, Don't think about the other girl, if you like him just go for it. Tell your parent you going out with him may be your parents will fell more comterval that you going out with a guy they know really good. Anyways you guys are too young for all this.
2006-11-14 11:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are sure that he has a girlfriend, ask him if he's OK with it. If he knows that you know, he will might open up about it. If you aren't sure, ask him. Just make sure your honest with him. If you aren't OK with it, cancel the date or talk to your mom about it. She might be able to tell you something about his girlfriend/dating status.
This is all assuming it would be like a date.
2006-11-14 11:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age couldn't y'all just be friends instead of boy & girl friend. You should wait for the kissing and sex. If you don't trust that y'all can't wait don't go or take another person with y'all (another girl).
2006-11-14 11:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask for honesty (even if he didn't tell the truth) and feel no guilt because if something goes wrong is his fault but if he really does have a g f (wich is possibly a lie) he's looking for someting else... and if it's not you it will be another one
2006-11-14 11:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheatin on his Girlfriend but also he is cheatin on you. I would dump him no ofense becuz if you do it will make your life easier and by the way there are tons of boyz in this world!
2006-11-14 11:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wants to take you to the movies no big deal there is no reason you tow cant be friends
2006-11-14 11:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not CHEATING (correct spelling) by chillin with a friend. if you do anything besides watch the movie (if ya know what i mean), then it is.
2006-11-14 11:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by babythugga281 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋