k...so yes there is guy i like at skool...and i get reallllllly shy and nervous when i see him in the hallways like my stomach drops ...and today i went to go and talk to him but i chickened out...cause i was to nervous ...so plz....i need your help...i want to go to semi with this guy..but i need some ice breakers...really badly..plz plz...help me ...now this guy no's me and nos all the basics...cause he is bff's with my good guy friend..so wht are some ice breakers..and how can i be flirty around his friends..?...HELP PLZ! :|
2006-11-14 11:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all,
if you never talk to this guy, you cannot just start off being really flirtatious around him. It will just scare him off. Tell him hi, ask him whats up. Do anything that is a conversation starter. Be patient. If he likes you, he will come around
never loose hope....i know what it feels like.
try all you can. saying hi wont hurt.
*remember not to put yourself in an awkward situation, though. Talk to him when he is around your guy friend. It wont be as akward as it would if you just randomly walked up to him, and he should be friendlier.
2006-11-14 11:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i thought you were dying or something, but girl, it looks like you've got it BAD. I had this for a guy for THREE years in middle school and NEVER ONCE tried to do anything with it-this happens to me a lot im so shy. But anyway, learn from my mistakes: never, ever let him get away without knowing you well. Just flirting in the hallway isn't enough; I'd walk past him and he'd look at me but I didn't know what to say. Anyway, I have a similar problem, and I'm just going to go places w/ him thru my friend. If you can, ask the guy friend if he wants to hang out. ASSURE HIM ITS NOT A DATE WITH HIM YOU WANT. Then go to the movies and buy popcorn and share it w/ him...buy the small so you'll run out. If he offers to buy more he's DEFINITELY into you. Make sure to sit with ur guy and hopefully...well...in a dark movie something will happen...hopefully. good luck.
2006-11-14 19:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly there is no 'way' to be around someone but by being yourself. If your friend is freidns wiht him, hang out with your friend when he's around (talk to him first n let him know, so he doesn't feel used). A simple hi, how are you is a nice breaker. If he already sort of knows you then there is no need for formal introductions. Knowing somehting abotu him would be a help for you. You could ask him about something he does or likes, but be genuine in your interst. Nothing more frusturating that someone who acts inerested, instead of REALLY being interested.
2006-11-14 19:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him for help with something, guys LOVE helping girls, and I know i get a rush knowing i did something for a girl.. be very thankful too, and make sure they think they did a GREAT job... then he'll want to talk to u, and that's an easy ice breaker, as for flirty, just smile and laugh at every single joke
2006-11-14 19:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm like i think that you need to stop freaking out for starters start acting normal when you talk about him and it'll be easier for you to act normal when you're actually around him. as for ice breakers watch to see if he does something you can tease him about then tease him about it
2006-11-14 19:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start the converstion with one of your guy friends with him around and let hime jump in! Music could be a good topic CD's
2006-11-14 19:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is be how you are with your good friends around him! once you guys get to know each other a little better this will become easier. and try to have his friends become your friends too, this will always help. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-14 19:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Amy Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY GIRL BE CALM AND SMOOTH. A GOOD ICE BREAKER IS ASKING HIM IF HE HAS A DATE FOR THAT SEMI AND IF HE SAYS NO THEN BAMB GIVE EM A KISS AND TELL HIM U WILL BE HIS DATE. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-14 19:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. Relax and just be casual. Don't put to much thought into it or it wont ever happen. Good luck and let me know what happens!
2006-11-14 19:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by countrygirl29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you go to school? How are your grades? Consentrate on what will make money for you someday and forget all this nonsense.
2006-11-14 19:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋