we were off and on for awhile then she got pregnant, she said it was mine at first then changed said wasnt then it went to she doesnt know. now i dont want to be a dick and not help cuz it might be mine but im not convinced (or maybe hopeful), should i try and be a part of this child life if it is mine or not, cuz shes got in her mind that she can do it all alone (past history says shes barely capable of takin care of herself)
2006-11-14 11:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by donald l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nothing at the moment. If you find out later it is your child...deal with it then. You can't trust a cheater...and whether or not she can take care of herself in not your problem.
2006-11-14 11:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need to find out if this baby is yours for sure. and if it is you should be in hisher life. So she cheated, but now there is a baby growing inside of her and depending on her, no matter what she says about wanting and being able to raise this child on her own she doesn't want to no matter if she can. A child needs a mom and a dad in there life. Make the best of the situation and be there for your new creation (if hopefully it is yours). Find out if the baby is yours then give it your love because he/she will love you for being there. Good luck and hopefully you get the result of the paternity you want.
2006-11-14 11:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tami S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a paternity test after she's born. But myth is the first child always looks like the dad so there are no confusions. Luck!
2006-11-15 02:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a a paternity test and if you are the father you will be able to get visitation. Of course you will have to pay child support. Good Luck!
2006-11-14 11:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test as soon as that baby is born - then you will know what your responsibility is. She may "want" to do it on her own, but it isn't about her. It is about the baby. If it is yours, stand up, support it and establish a relationship with it. You have right to visitation even if she doesn't want you too. Good luck to you.
2006-11-14 11:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why you would want to get re involved with some one who is barely able to take care of her self. I think this poor girl has been taken advantage of to many times already. I know she needs help but do you not think it would be better for her if you helped her get the help she needs, counselling, pre natal help , I am sure there is endless stuff that needs to be attended to help her find the help she really needs
2006-11-14 11:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 02:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your ex-girlfriend to get a paternity test. If the baby happened to be yours, then you should definitely get involve in the baby's life and also pay child support.
2006-11-14 11:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by buddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who the better person here you are her.... your not a dick , ***** are the ones who walk away
2006-11-14 11:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by d_elmasry@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when the baby is born you can get a peternity test. Don't alienate her incase the baby is yours.
2006-11-14 11:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋