I have a friend on line..whom I have been friends with and close to for close to a year now. Saturday we had somewhat of a arguement and I told him I wouldnt be able to forgive him for what he had done..which i believed at that time was lie to me. He knew I was going in the hosiptal monday(yesterday) to have a procedure done and since saturday when we had our arguement he has not contacted me at all. Not even too see how I made out from the hosiptal yesterday. Which I dont know now if I can ever forgive him for that, more so. Should I just try and forget him or what? I am soo hurt over this. He has really ripped my heart by what he has done. I dont think I should be the one to say anything first but on the other hand not saying anything at all is really bothering me. I am tempted to call him but then what do I say? cause I am very hurt. I would like to know why he is treating me like this? I just want some anwsers. I did nothing to deserve this. Anyne have any suggestions or anything?
2006-11-14 10:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by oxygenO 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you cannot trust your boyfriend - and lies to me are a deal breaker - forget him and move on.
Liars are not quality mates. Although you are terribly hurt over this, just think of how you would feel when he lies to you again.
Hope you're feeling well.
2006-11-14 11:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would contact him, and by the sounds of it appoligise to him, you said "i believed at that time was lie to me" so it sounds like you found out it wasnt a lie...what ever the truth may be, a good friendship has had a hiccup and it needs to be smoothed over...to me it sounds like your a little hot headed and after telling him off you expected him to be waiting for you...perhpas hes hurting too, especially if hes really done nothing wrong in the first place.
Respect him and he will in turn respect you...
Call him
2006-11-14 19:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen don't forget about him yet but if he doesn't wana talk you talk to him he don't respond then you forget it don't be hurt it happens to the best of friends
2006-11-14 19:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by baby g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right idea, work it out call him express yourself and let him express he self, listen to each other........plus isn't that what a friendship about communication!?
2006-11-14 19:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by d_elmasry@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH?
2006-11-14 19:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋