The girl I was wanting to ask out has now been my gf for a week, but she already wants to do it. I really want to, because I really like her, but the thing is, please don't leave any embarrassing/insulting remarks, but I don't exactly know which part of the vagina I should stick my penis into (don't mean to sound perverted). My family is Christian, so I was never exposed to stuff like this, except in sex ed. She's she has tried 5 times in the past 2 days to get me in bed, but I kept on resisting, and now I think she wants to break up with me. Walk me through it to the part where I "stick it in her" (again, don't mean to sound perverted.)
2006-11-14 10:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by itachi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-14 11:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look well damn, she's too horny lol, that's too soon, I'm christian too 'n you should know not to do that. Why does she wanna do it so much 'n so soon ever think she might have a disease that she wants to transmit to you? Be careful ok not everyone in this world is nice, think about it don't do it would be my advise, you never know. Well uh I know where it's at this is so weird, but it's in the lower part of the vagina like i said you're better off without her who knows where she's been she's desparate. You can do better get a desent girl you'll do better like that 'n take your time don't rush things obviously it's not the right time for you.
2006-11-14 11:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by nell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one week is a short time to have been with someone before you have sex (considering you sound really young)... honestly, as much as you like someone when you're young, things change sooo much so quickly at that phase in your life... its hard when you meet the 'right' person to justify something as special when you were willing to just give it to some girl after a week. think about what sex really means to you. if you are convinced you want to do it (it makes me worry that she's so into it, do you wonder how many people she's been with before?). Use a condom if you decide its really what you want. Once a girl is properly aroused, things should go in quite easily. There's really not alot of options of places to put anything in. Maybe you guys should try 'fooling around' together first-- that way you have some time to think about sex and you can learn your way around the female body. Masturbate with each other, have her show you how to do it, maybe oral sex.. you will feel way more confident when its time to actually have sex if you've explored/looked around a bit.
2006-11-14 11:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by teacher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh you poor boy. There are only two places 'it' could go, trust in yourself you won't have any problems with finding the correct place. When I was younger I never had any problems with boys sticking it in the wrong place. Get yourself some lube, 100% pure coconut oil is the best it contains no harmful chemicals, it is expensive but well worth it. All the other lubes contain harmful toxic chemicals and you don't want to be putting anything harmful down there as you could well be contributing to your own cancer (this is what they do). Good luck to you both.
2006-11-14 11:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kinda reminds me of the first part of the song "Surrender" by Cheap Trick. Why don't you download it, listen to it, and if you still want to go through with it. For the love of God, Wear A Condom.
2006-11-14 12:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u just want to do it b/c u dont want to lose her and u like her dont do it just b/c of that b/c u will regret it later on down ur life and thats not a good reason to have sex with someone and to tell u the truth if i wasnt ready to do that stuff with someone that was ready and they told me that they wanted to break up b/c of it i would tell them will thats ur choice not mine im not ready and u cant push me in to it so if thats what u want to reget it later in life b/c u made that mistake of doing it just b/c she wanted to well go for it but otherwise dont do it but thats what i would tell her is what i told u i would do if i was in ur shoes.
2006-11-14 11:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you probably shouldn't sleep with her is she is going to break up with our for not having sex with her. When you have sex for the first time with that special someone don't worry about anything you find that it all will come naturally. Usually if she is a virgin she will be really wet her first time and trust me it will go were it is suppose to. lol
always remember lotz of foreplay
2006-11-14 11:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ben V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...really you shouldnt miss it. Use lubrication and work yourself into her hole. It will take a couple of tries but if you give her foreplay it should be quite easy. Good luck!
2006-11-14 11:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bambi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no can do .. you sound like you may be a minor.. but just in case you aint you can go to any book store and pick up a copy of joy of sex and it will explain everything you need to know.. just got to be legal age..oh yeah wear a condom
2006-11-14 11:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a gurl has 3 holes stick it into the middle one
2006-11-14 11:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋