After she told me how she cheated on me with her friend, she told me that sex with him was nothing because she didn't love him. I know they were seen together everywhere and she has already admitted that they were sleeping in my house together many times. What should i do??? What is going on????
2006-11-14 10:57:09 · 34 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being lesbian.
2006-11-14 10:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure it meant something on some level. What that is, I don't know. Regardless of how she's choosing to degrade this other lover doesn't matter either.
Could you really ever trust her again? Could you ever look at her the same? I think it's over and you should move on. Sorry for being stuck with such a worthless female. We're not all that bad.
2006-11-14 11:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro: Man to man... do you love her? I don't think you should drag this for too long. Sort your mind and your heart and do the math... pros and cons... Do you have kids? Do you have shared property? if you don't have permanent links, you don't need to stick around. If you're not legally married, you don't have a reason to stay... This is just unsettling your head and I don't think you'll have any trouble finding another girl... get your self some fresh p***y... experiment, meet new people, don't get into a commited relationship until you know exactly what you want. Listen to Tom Leykis...visit him at blowmeuptom.com and find out about his talk show in your area...
2006-11-14 11:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want her, u have to not want her anymore. u need to stop being in love with this girl and get over her...thats the only way you will keep her. Otherwise you will be her little doggie and you will follow her around and do her biddings. Be a man...pull yourself together and play the game how its played. Control your emotions. You aren't interested in her anymore. Don't kick her to the side...but do not show any reaction when she says things about other guys or if you see her...do not let it bother you...you are not in love with her anymore....don't be beaten. If you still want her, you have to not want her. As soon as she see's you aren't interested, you will be okay. But don't be rude to her. Also, get another girl to hang around with and make sure your girl sees you and her together. Give her a kiss. Make sure this girl sees you. Make sure she sees both of you having fun together. Pull yourself together man. You will do fine. Whatever you do, do not be her little doggie.
2006-11-14 11:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Drop her like a hot potato. What's going on? It's called betryal. You must have low self-esteem to think this girl is worth anything. Why in the world would you want someone you could never trust again? And, she slept in your house. Geez there are many nice girls out there and you have a long road ahead of you. Tell her to piss off.
2006-11-14 11:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex part probably wasnt nothing. It was more about the attention she got from this guy and the things he said to her like you look so hot etc...... That is what it is about for a girl the attention not the physical sex part. It has to do with lust too but more that he gives her the attention she isnt getting from you sorry but thats that
2006-11-14 11:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, huh? Well was sleeping with him worth losing you? If she didn't think about this before she cheated, you're obviously not as important to her as you should be, and you should find someone who is interested in more than just sex....because if my husband and I could no longer have physical intimacy.....I would still love him just as much, I would stay with him, and I would never cheat on him. Think about it.
2006-11-14 11:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, 1. It def. did mean something... They could have a baby!! Really, just cheating, it's horrible. You're just trapped. Like a fork road. and you don't know where to go.. just go the direction you think is right.. if she can REALLY show some love for you... get going with her.. if you're kinda, oh maybe ill think about it, get out. Tell her to just go with her man..
Side Note: She wouldn't do "that" if she didn't love the friend.......
2006-11-14 11:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what she says she still had sex and that to me is a big no no. How can you trust her now. She also disrespected you by sleeping with him in your house. Break up with her if you haven't already or you can try to make it work if you love her...follow your heart
2006-11-14 11:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter...she still cheated. If it was nothing then why did she sleep him? Look, i can't tell you what to do. i could tell you to leave her and it turns out to be the biggest mistake ever, i could also tell you to stay with her and that turns out to be a mistake too. But i will tell you that it'll be a good idea to talk to her . If you decide to stay with her, know that the trust will take time to be rebult.
2006-11-14 11:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.... your girl cheated on you..... with your friend? Are you still with her? Ofcourse it ment nothign to her, sex is sex!! the real problem is... what you doing with the battlac? Sex is just sex but once your girl has been pounded by another sausage..... bounce!!! Leave her A**!!
2006-11-14 11:02:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋