i want to have my inplant out but my hubby dont want anymore kids.we have a 4 y old and 2 y old twins all boys

Question

I desperatly want to have another baby before i get too old, i have had inplant in for 2 years and my periods are all over the place and i am sick of being crabby, and very moody towards my hubby and kids.

Answer 1

I also have three kids, but all girls. But I'm kind of having the opposite problem, I'm plenty young but I'm not sure whether I want anymore kids but my husbands wants more. Part of me wants to try once more to see if we could have a boy and I do want to please my husband. But I also know that it takes two parents to raise these kids, especially when you have more than 2 kids to take care of. You need to sit down and find out the reason why your husband doesn't want more kids. And feel the situation out, if you have another you might be all on your own to take care of them. As far as the implant goes, you could explore other birth control options that don't give you bad side effects.

Answer 2

As a fellow mother of toddler twins, let me start by saying Wow! lol But like fellow poster above stated, this isnt all about what you want. Sit with your husband and each of you should write the pros and cons of having more children. Do you think you want more children because you want a girl? What if you were to get pregnant again with another boy? Just things to ponder. HTH

Answer 3

You want more children and your husband doesn't? I think you two need to sit down and have a very long talk. This isnt all about what you want. As for the periods etc if you want your implant out get it out, but as far as more kids you two have to talk

Answer 4

You always can have them removed and try a different kind of birth control. I had Norplants put in my arm and after 4 years I had them taken out and went to something different because I had really bad mood swings with those as well.