My mom and dad divorsed 9 years ago and before that my mom sold our house and gave him a lot of money to help him with financial trouble.now we rent a house and he doesnt pay the rent every month so owe the bank a lot of money.My dad has a new family now and he is totally indifferent of whats happening in our lifes and he doesnt have the money to help us pay a houseloan and even if he did he wouldnt do it.My moms life is destroyed and she regrets every day selling that house cos everything would have been ok now.i donr know how to help.
2006-11-14 10:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What a terrible situation. There's nothing really you can do...but ask your mom. Ask her if you can get a job or help out every moment you can. Don't ask her to buy you clothes or other things so often and maybe try talking to your dad.
2006-11-14 10:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Emirii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the house being sold was not part of the divorse then there is not much that you can do about it. as in she got half and he got half. now here is a question if the debt was aquired within the divorce if it was not brought up within it then ere is not much you can do. Now the next question is were you under the age of 18 when they slit and if so did he pay child support if not then you guys can get money that way go to the child support angency they can help you. if not well then get 4 jobs and do it that way becuase that is about all you can do the divorse is over so there is nothing leagely that you can do.
2006-11-14 18:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by rainamem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an experience in life that you have seen
and should be a lesson to you so that you will
not get in that kind of an situation. What is done,
is done. If u are grown then give ur mom all the
help and support that u can. She is going thru
difficult times now and with u being her daughter
give her all the support that u can.If u are still
a minor you can support her by giving her ur
un-conditional love.
2006-11-14 21:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this was between you mom and dad and you can't undo your mom's bad judgement, and your dads indifference.,I would just try to be as supportive of your Mom as you can, but remember this is adult problems and all you can do is learn how not to end up like this
2006-11-14 19:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats is horrible but like they said... their isnt much to do.... what you can do though is try to get a good job or try to help your mom not waste so much money... what i mean is like no clothes for a while untill you need some and no shoes and stuff like dat... i am srry that there isnt much you can do but pray that everything will go well and everything will hopefully go well.
2006-11-14 18:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you and your siblings want to go live with your dad and his new family. Then give them hell everyday. No don't do that that's not right. It will make you feel better though.
2006-11-15 01:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now your mom doesn't need money. right now she needs you. what you should do is tell her that you are right there to help and support her in everyway. ask her if she needs help with anything. if she insists help anyway.
SHE NEEDS YOU.NOT MONEY. HELP HER !!
2006-11-14 19:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by angelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋