me and my b/f were real serious and we were gonna get married but my parents are forcing us to break up. he says he'll wait for me, which is a few years. this other guy likes me and wants to have a relationship with me. i dont know whether to break it off with my b/f and go out with this other guy, or stay with my b/f until we are allowed to be together without a problem.
2006-11-14 10:41:15 · 10 answers · asked by mareena_nin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay with your current guy or just be single for a while, skipping to someone else just because you cant date who you want is a bad choice.
2006-11-14 10:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, and guessing you are over twenty one years old, I would say the decision is all yours.
It's your life, and you must decide what may be the better future for you. You may be wrong, and many of us were wrong, and that's what you'll have to live with.
Your parents have to have a legitimate reason for forcing you against your will.
And, will power is what you need.
Unless you are of age and can live on your own, you may be in a situation to have to accept your parent's decision.
Understand that your parents have stuck their neck out and made a decision for you. Many parents have been held responsible for forcing their children to do something that turned out wrong for them. Many children have had bitter relations with their parents when something like this turns against them.
Not an easy situation to be in for either yourself or your parents.
2006-11-14 10:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were serious enough to be talking about marriage with your boyfriend then you should wait on him. If you go out with this other guy it might mess your relationship up for good. But it is totally up to you. Do what makes you happy.
2006-11-14 10:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by catccrockins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think your parents are gonna let you be with the new guy?? and if you guys were sooo "serious" then why are you even thinking about going out with some else? Your parents shouldnt even be forcing you to do anything.. what mommy doesnt know wont hurt her...
2006-11-14 10:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by risab05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you go run off wiht this other guy what do you think it will make your bf feel like? who knows maybe he's better. my bf was dating another girl for liek a month, they were forced to break up (he only saw her 3 times in the month they were datin, so who knows if thats really dating or not...lol) but he knew i had feelings for him and he started to have feelings for me. and now we've been together for 2 years. do what you feel is right. ther are many guys out there. but it will probably hurt your bf's feelings since he said hw ould wait for you then im guesssing you guys would be firneds. but you would hurt his feelings if you date this ither guy. just do what you feel is right. thats the only thing you can do.
good luck and be safe!
2006-11-14 10:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like the other guy if you don't then what is the point of having a relationship with him? but on the other hand your boyfriend at the time even though he says hell wait on you but he might find some other girl and be with her. its just really what you think is going to be the smartest choice
2006-11-14 10:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by 12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def. stay with the guy you are with now. I mean if you really love him and he really loves you then don't let your parents get in the way. They should be happy with what you want.
2006-11-14 10:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Daiseee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for whoever makes u the happiest
2006-11-14 10:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat ever u want
2006-11-14 10:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋