I went out with this one girl at my school, we broke up a couple of months later. She says that she doesnt want to go out again, and just wants to be friends. Problem is that she is always hugging me, and sitting on my lap, doing stuff just to get my attention. Can anyone shed some light onto my situation?
2006-11-14 10:36:22 · 11 answers · asked by WizardWOR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is leading you on and loving it. Harsh to say, but I have been there (the one who lead someone on). She probably likes the fact that you let her do these things and you are still stuck on her. It's a power that everyone likes to have sad to say. If she wanted to get back together, she wouldnt say that she doesnt want to go out again. She's just playing games.
You got some choices in my opinion.
A. You can let her play you until she gets bored and finds someone else.
B. You can drop her and ignore her, dont hug her, ect and move on.
C. You can play the game, too. Start flirting with other girls, paying less attention to her, and acting as if you only want to be freinds, too. Still hug her, let her sit on you, ect. just not as much.
But if you decide to play the game, be careful. It could piss her off like no other and completey ruin the friendship you have. But it'd be fun while you did it :).
2006-11-14 10:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by nike54_la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother had to deal with the same thing. You eventually just have to speak up and tell her what you're thinking. Let her know that if she wants to be friends she's crossing the line for what you consider friends. Or if you're not even comfortable being friends let her know that you can't handle it and it's either all or nothing. Good luck and I hope that helps.
2006-11-14 10:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by mnorth12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you and might be a little confused. Open up to her and tell her to quit the flirting and all the touching. If she wants to have a relationship to communicate her feelings to you. If you don't want a relationship with her tell her. She is sending you mix messages.
2006-11-14 10:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) She probably wants to have her cake and eat it to!! Tell her hard luck!! or
2.)She may also be afraid to lose you as a friend so she may be pushing a tad harder than she should.
Come right out to her and ask her what's going on? Only she can give you the true answer.
2006-11-14 10:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by sasha_anton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she does that to u just throw her out of your lap and grab another one u like.Simple DUDE!!!Have a life of your own kid and learn to grow up.
2006-11-14 10:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by 666 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still likes you obviously,but wants to play the field! Ya'll are still young...have some fun quit being so serious!
2006-11-14 10:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you still like her and she is using you to get attention. She knows that you wont push her away and all girls like attention. If it makes you incomfortable, or you find you still like her, dont allow her to do it. She might be mad at first, but then she might like you again, because your not available anymore....girls are like that....
good luck
~laurie
2006-11-14 10:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the light---she still has feelings for you, but is scared or not ready for dating. she probably just wants to get to know you better first.
2006-11-14 10:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants ya back. do you know if she just broke up with someone, cuz if she did, your a rebound
2006-11-14 10:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Des'ree is how to spell my n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she obviously wants to get back with you.
2006-11-14 10:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋