Am i the selfish one?

Question

I may have Hepatocellular is a liver cancer. I am married with a family for nine year but been seperated 4 five months she does't under stand that i could die from this at anytime all i have ask of her is to help me thru this and be there and all she has told me was what about the past of the hurt i have put her thru. People make mistakes that much i do no. I just want to spend as much time that i can with my family she is being selfish and rotten there is another man in the picture could he be the blame of her being as cold as she is.

Answer 1

there could be another man but u need to tell her to her face that u need to see ur kids and u can die any minute now

Answer 2

Well it's not a matter of being selfish. I can understand you wanting your family back but you can't control another human being. She has every right to say "no". However if you have l children, she should encourage them to spend as much time as possible with you. That's what you need to concentrate on. She has moved on
already. She may have forgiven you but that doesn't mean she's coming back to you. Focus on what family you have. God bless you. I will be praying for you and I hope you don't have cancer.

Answer 3

your ex wife's new man might be telling her to stay away from you due to jealousy, but in your ex wife's eyes she is still caught on the fact that you left and doesnt comprehend that you may pass... stop waisting your time with her if she doesnt listen and pay attention to your other family and make the best of the situation ahe will eventually turn around.

Answer 4

depends on what you did to her in the past. If you treated her like garbage, don't expect her to turn around and treat you like a saint just because you might be dying. Sorry, but you should have respected her all along. I know it's tough, but life isn't always fair.

Answer 5

no just say i am sorry but i dint want 2 hurt you thats y i didn't tell you before but if it happen 2 you i would be by ur side