My grandfather wwas a randy bastard. My uncle (50) told me that my mother(70) had an older 1/2 sister. I have found her. should I tell my 4 sisters about this?
2006-11-14 10:04:48 · 22 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sure why not! I recently found out that my Mother had an older 1/2 Sister Louise. My Grandmother had Louise when she was very young and was forced to give her up for adoption. We've all met her now, and it's as if she's always been part of the family!
2006-11-14 10:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 12:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your sisters mature or capable of handling it? Have you actually contacted the 1/2 sister? Do you TRUELY want to meet her? Do your sisters? If you answered yes, to all or most. ABSOLUTELY! You should probably tell them anyway, and if any of them want to get ahold of her they should do it in their own time or do it with you. They have every right to know either way. What they want to do with the information is totally up to them. I didnt know I had a half sister up untill about 7 years ago, and I hardly even keep in touch with her, but my sister and her are best friends. Its really just a choice. As long as everybody starts on the same page, the chapters can turn as each sister decides how to read it. Does that make sense? Good luck on your journey of meeting new family members. Its exciting in a way.
2006-11-14 10:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your Uncle and Mother if your sisters should know. If they don't have issue with them knowing, ask one of them to tell your sisters. The age of your sisters could have bearing on whether they are told, or not. I found out that my wife was an out of wedlock child by researching Genealogy. Her Father admitted that she is his daughter, but the woman he married would not allow anyone in their family to hear about it, no rwould she allow my wife's Father to communicate with each other in any way. She's a WITCH ! Their loss, my wife is a wonderful person. Best of luck
2006-11-14 10:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would talk to my mother before making the big announcement. She is older now and although you do have a right to know, there may be a very good reason why she hasn't told you about it. Why hurt her. Or is there more to the story?
2006-11-14 10:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's important if you've found someone in your family that you should inform other members of your family. They have the right to know she's been found and deserve a chance to speak with her.
2006-11-14 10:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you tell them? They have a new aunt? You guys can have a great time meeting her and getting to know her.
I wouldn't want to be you, if they find out and then learn you knew and didn't tell them.
2006-11-14 10:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-11-14 10:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Emma B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, If there your sister's and you guess are close, you should tell them because you just found another part of your of your family and, if you find someome it's so special because they could have been looking for you guess there whole life and if you've found another piece of the puzzel you should share it with your family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 10:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Emily Janssen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes yo do your part in telling them and then if they want to see or meet her it depends on them entirely.
2006-11-14 10:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋