Do you tell him that you have never done it before? or just do it? and what if oyu are really not ready? what do you do? i really need help from both guys and girls!!
2006-11-14 09:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most importantly, if you are not ready, TELL HIM! If he's a decent guy, he'll understand. If he's just after one thing, you will know from his reaction and you'll have just saved yourself a lot of agony. No one needs to be involved with a person more interested in the physical than the individual. Take it from a guy, lol, our reaction will tell you immediately whether or not we're worth your time.
If you are ready, it doesn't hurt to let him know that this is new to you. Likely, he'll take it as a compliment that he's the first. And make sure there's a clear understanding of where to stop, what you aren't ready for.
You're a very intelligent person to be contemplating this and it seems you have a lot of self-respect, that's a great virtue, good for you!
2006-11-14 10:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking about this means you are not ready. Please say NO to him. You should not make out with a guy that you don't even know well enough to have talked about your past sexual relations, or lack of.
Keep in mind, if you allow more than a few kisses, he will tell others.
Also, be prepared to have a baby if you say yes. The time to think about the future is before you do anything with a guy. How will you feed a child? How do you know he doesn't have a VD? How will you feel telling your parents you are pregnant? How will they respond? These are the things to think about before getting physical with a guy.
2006-11-14 10:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you haven't ever done it before if you're comfortable enough. if not, just let him lead. let him kiss you and follow along just below his level - if he's giving you big smooches give him smaller kisses. don't shove your tongue into his mouth right away! if he's experienced at french kissing, he'll touch his tongue to yours and you'll kind of roll and push them verrrrry gently back and forth. don't worry! and if HE messes up, say its ok. you could have been in the same situation but know u are all the smarter! good luck :-)
2006-11-14 10:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then tell him that. You shouldnt just do something spur of the moment. Get to know him better, and decide from there. If he doesnt want to wait, then you'll know that he wasnt the right one.
2006-11-14 10:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to make out with him then go ahead!! but if ur not ready then ur hearts telling u to wait, see im only 13 and i've already madeout and my first makeout was last year and he didn't know it was my first time but alll ended well and still thinks im a great kisser! but still u need to be honest with him about it.
2006-11-14 10:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pressure into anything you arn't ready for you'll feel horrible and regret it. If this boy really cares for you he'll understand and respect you if he dosn't then who cares why would you want to make out with a guy who dosn't care.
2006-11-14 10:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do remember that these lines are lies.: "you wont get pregnant your first time", "Just let me stick the head in",and If you love me you will". Making out is fun and sometimes erotic so watch where it leads.
2006-11-14 10:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like hey i am new at this so lets take it slow. if he doesnt take it into consideration then screw him. he isnt worth it. but yeah making out is amazing. make sure ur bf eats a starburst b4 u guys make out omg it takes soooo good! lol i know trust me lol. but yeah sooo take it slow and everything will go fine!! have funn. and be sxy about it!! :D Good Luck
2006-11-14 10:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel your not ready then don't do it and tell him you need more time to get to know him better and if you feel your ready just do it ..........kissing comes naturally .........if you like the person
2006-11-14 10:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it if youre ready. He wont ask if its your first. Guys dont think that way. check this site out...
http://www.ehow.com/how_2919_kiss-date.html
2006-11-14 10:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋