Would You Date A Man Who Can't Drive? (Women Only, Please)?

Question

i cannot drive, i've never had a license and i am unable to drive. I'm 26 years old and when i was 5 old i got meningitis and i have some problems with coordination because of that, which is why i am unable to drive and learning how is not an option for me. i also lost alot of hearing from it and i am completely deaf without my hearing aid, however i can hear fine as long as i have it in and since i didn't lose any hearing until i was 5 my speech is normal. but i'm afraid that the fact i'm unable to drive would put alot of women off and i'm always very nervous about telling this to someone i'm attracted to. so do you think most women would be bothered by this? i know no decent woman would be, but there are alot of shallow women out there, just like there are alot of shallow men. so what do you think? serious answers only, please, i really need advice on how to deal with this.

Answer 1

Honestly; given the circumstances I don't think you being unable to drive should be an issue for *most* women. Unfortunately you are correct; there are shallow women out there who see a man's ability to drive as a status symbol. You don't want to date any of these women anyway.

For any woman who truly cares about you for you, it won't be an issue. For any woman who is bothered by this, they aren't worth your time anyway.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Yeah i have a boyfriend but if he couldn't drive i would love him the same way. I can't drive because i've been in three accidentts 'n i'm too scarred but i think in your case any girl should understand. Don't feel bad look it's better to tell a girl cus you'll find our right away how they really feel for you if they really like or love you or if they're jus b****** so yeah of course if they are it's better for you that way you won't deal with b.s but don't be afraid.

Answer 3

I wouldn't mind having a husband who couldn't drive especially because you actually have a real reason, it's not just laziness or anything of that matter.
To me, it's more men that stereotype drivers. A lot of men think women should be in the passenger side, but I enjoy driving and me and my fiance switch it up.

Answer 4

Well unless you describe exactly why you can't drive, just like you did for us, then yes a women will look down on it. If you describe the situation, then the right women will understand and love you no matter what.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

It really wouldn't bother me, its not like its the be all and end all of everything. We got around before cars were invented and I'm pretty sure we can still get around without them if we wanted to.

Answer 7

well, i think if you explain you "problem" to a girl you like, she would like you like you. I would totally date you but im a little young 4 you.

Answer 8

well if you have a legitimate reason and its not laziness, then i wouldnt mind dating a guy who couldnt drive.

Answer 9

Wouldn't be a problem.

Answer 10

hum...I'll drive you to any were you want to go..................heheh lol