I just turnd 19 my bf is 23. He wants me to get pregnant. I was pregnant and we didnt know what to do. He got all daddy happy, but I lost it. Now he took away my pills and will not use anything. We have sex like 3 or 4 times a day. He wants a baby and wont take no, and if I cant give him a baby he will go to some one different, but will not let me go. What should I do?
2006-11-14 09:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by zevion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't want to get pregnant, you don't have to. you are the one that is going to have to deal with it for nine months. let him go to someone else. who cares...a baby is a huuuuuge commitment and if you don't think you are ready for it, i would NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS do it, cuz once you have that baby, you're stuck with it for 18 years. even if he leaves you for someone else anyway.
2006-11-14 10:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think firstly you should ask yourself if you want a baby! They want them, but usually all the responsibility is on you. No more personal life. No more freedom between the two of you. I know, I'm a single mom. If you dont want to get pregnant, get the Nuva ring...He cant feel it! Babies dont come magically, you have to figure out conception times to the max. If you cant give him one right away and he's threatening to go elsewhere, let him go. You especially shouldnt feel pressured into something like this. It really is a big deal you know. You will no longer have to just worry about your personal means of survival. If you want one, tell him to be patient, if you dont, take my previous advice. But I suggest that if you want to be pregnant, stop stressing about it, let things flow naturally.
Good Luck and best regards!
2006-11-14 10:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by JazzyB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your Gyn and get the ring. You put in in for 3 weeks and out 1 week. He wont feel it and wont know. Dont let him do that to you
2006-11-14 09:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run, run away as fast as those little feet will take you - noone owns you! you are responcible for your own body and you will be stuck 'holding the baby' when he decides that being 'daddy' is smelly, tiring, boring and hard bloody work!
2006-11-14 10:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by lilith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes crazy and not the one for you. Sounds very abusive and I don't mean physical. Your not ready and thats just wrong. Get out now!
2006-11-14 09:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by polystyrene_high 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss, but this is not the way to do it.
i would go into some grief counseling to get his head straight, but I would seriously think about getting out
2006-11-14 09:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he wont respect you then cut him down to only sex with condoms. If he wont put one on don't let him in.
2006-11-14 10:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by sirelyas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i second the ring action
2006-11-14 09:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else babe-----
2006-11-14 11:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋