I am goin out with this really sweet guys named Trevor, we have been going out for about a year, and i cant seem to find the gut to kiss him. I am trying really hard, but it seems rite when i get around to it, i chicken out. i need help on getting guts to kiss him!!!
HELP! plz
2006-11-14 09:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, to help answer some of the questions ur wondering. i am 13, he has kissed me be4, and weve talk ed about it be4 2. were super close. i just need some pointers, lol.
2006-11-14 10:03:28 · update #1
I take it you are a teenager, probably a very young teenager. If so, I am impressed and I remember the day I felt like that. Ahh, first kisses!
Here is what you do. Kiss him. There is no reason to freak out, really. Kissing won't cause a baby and if you are going out...he obviously won't reject you!!!!
Have fun with it! If you want confidence, get some mints and wear chapstick (not lipstick...trust me on that...not colored lip gloss either). Go get flavored chapstick. Then you taste good, smell good, and make one happy experience.
He is shy too, otherwise he would have kissed you. You could try the cheek first, or the neck and move to the lips as comfort levels go up. I kissed a guy on the neck the first time, then I wanted more...so eventually I got to his lips. I am not saying latch on like a sucker fish...just a peck.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 10:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...A year and not even a kiss? Just relax and you will know when the time is right. If you have waited this long already, why ruin it by rushing things? Just keep breathing, relax and don't stress over it. Depending on how close you are, maybe bring up the issue with him. Hope I helped.
2006-11-14 17:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok when your about to kiss him what ever you think about you have to throw out and think of somethign else like food or something really really good and sweet. and make a bet with your self i know that sounds really bad but hey it works or you can tell him and make him steal a kiss and then its not so bad for you want him to kiss you just make him do all the work for the first time lol i hope ive helped
2006-11-14 17:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do it once it will get easier the next time, Just close your eyes and tell your self you can do it, you'll be fine. i had the same problem when i was a bout 12 and it was my first kiss, i was so nervous but i just told myself right i'm going to do this, and i did, and after that it was so much easier.
2006-11-14 18:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a severe problem. If its your first kiss then I understand but if not then you need to get therapy to rid yourself of this mental block. And you are right...he is a good guy to not even be impatient about this kiss. He is a keeper and definately worthy of your attention
2006-11-14 17:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by sirelyas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EASY...I WAS LIKE THAT TOO FOR MY FIRST KISS AND I STILL REMEMBER IT....WE HAVE NEVER KISSED SOMEONE B4 SO WE BOTH WERE ON THE SOFA AND EATING SOME JOLLY RANCHERS AND I LOVE CHERRY FLAVOR AND HE HAD A GRAPE SO I TOLD HIM CAN I HAVE A TASTE...I TOLD HIM TO LET ME TASTE IT AND TEASED HIM WITH MINE AND I SLIPPED MINE IN HIS MOUTH AND HE DID THE SAME AND WE KISSED...
ok so you want pointers...start by kissing his top lip then kiss his bottom and see which lip you like to kiss then yall will be lip locking. then the rest is natural...don't slobber yuck! oh yeah and use a candy or mint
2006-11-14 18:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he kissed you, or do you just have a problem with kissing him? you just need to do it on an impulse. don't really think about it, just make yourself do it.
2006-11-14 17:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by mareena_nin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha a year. how old are you??
2006-11-14 17:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..how old are you?
2006-11-14 17:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋