My boyfriend just went on my facebook and got pissed because I wrote like a month ago that this actor was "the hottest man ever." obviously i wasn't planning on stalking this guy or something, i was simply saying that he's hot. I guess I should've ommitted the "ever" part, but I wasn't expecting him to see it. But he has a poster of Shakira and some model's *** on his wall. So why does he care? Everyone has actors or actresses they like, right? I have a test tomorow and I don't feel like arguing with him for an hour. If he calls me, should I answer? I know we'll end up fighting and wasting time.
2006-11-14 09:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by malintzin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your statement took an unintentional stab at his ego. In reality, we all should know and understand that we're not the best of the best no matter who we are. Yes, we all have celebrities that we like the most. He probably shouldn't have cared about your statement on your facebook, but the fact is, he did care. I suggest a simple apology and if that doesn't do the trick, then give him some time to cool off. If you have a test tomorrow and you don't want to fight with him tonight, don't avoid him. He is your boyfriend after all! If you truly intend on making up with him, think up something to do to make him feel special. Even though it's not the case, we'd all like to think that our boyfriend/girlfriend can't see anyone but us. If he is otherwise un-jealous or demanding, I suggest let this blow over and move on.
2006-11-14 10:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being incredibly stupid!! Who cares if u think an actor is hot? My friends walk around with me and their boyfriends pointing out hot guyz and they don't get mad. We talk about how hot my friends think Orlando Bloom and Johnny Depp are and none of their bf's care. It's no big deal!!! My friends Jessica told me nd her bf that Orlando Bloom was the Sexiest man alive and he didn't care at all. And don't answer the phone... If u have a test studying is more important right now than what ur bf thinks about u thinking an actor is "the Hottest Man Ever".
2006-11-14 10:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has people that they think are hot, whether the are dating, or married. But men take it harder I think, us woman know that beyonce and britney spears and all them are hot, and we let it go, because we know that our men will never end up with these girls. Men on the other hand get distracted, and get in secure about it. Just keep telling him that you love him and that he is the only guy for you. And to be even better for his ego put a big thing in your face book saying that...it'll make him feel like he is on top of the world without anyone having to apoligize or fight
2006-11-14 10:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email him - don't talk to him on the phone. he's more likely to listen and read your thoughts. reason with him by saying that if he has those posters on his wall, why can't you say one little thing about a hot actor on your facebook??? end with a nice note like u love him and he should be ok. if he still is mad, get another boyfriend! if he's set off by something tiny like that you don't wanna get in a serious relationship.
2006-11-14 09:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you guys are still in high school. Not everyone likes a celebrity, in fact when you mature, you will not have pics up or have a crush on anyone like that. Don't answer your phone if you don't want to argue with him.
2006-11-14 09:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a stupid argument and just a waste of time for both of y'all. is there any chance of you hooking up with this actor? no. so he's immature to be this upset and you should tell him that.
2006-11-14 09:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes wrong. just dont get jealous and dont let him get to you. he needs to learn to accept it. i have a girlfriend and i still think lots of actresses are hot. she does the same and we just call it a truce
2006-11-14 09:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by dan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and get over it! And tell him to call you when he does! Good luck on your test!
2006-11-14 09:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its not like i will marry him or something
2006-11-14 09:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Macavelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋