I miss u so much!I have been thinking about you all day! Can i tell you something that will stay between u and I?Ok, here goes, I am so scared about getting married.I never thought i would be, but i am.Its just that everytime we fight I just keep thinkin, god we are going to be having this same fight forever and ever!That is so scary! And everytime we fight i think of u.I think about how much fun i have always had with u, and how we probably wouldnt fight like this.What if i am not supposed to marry him.And even if i do marry him, i think that i will always wonder what life would have been like if i was with u.I hate this.You prob dont even feel the same way about me anymore.I just have never had the connection that we have even when we are thousands of miles apart talking on the phone.I dont know who to talk to about this except u.I think that i Love u, I have always loved u.But i have never let myself love u.now i am here unable to love u and its all i can think about.What do I do???
2006-11-14 09:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by Lightchaser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I had to reply Ok it is very simple If you can look in the mirror and say This is the woman/man I truly want to be with 4 the rest of my life and you mean that **** Get off your *** and go to her wherever in the world she is and get her it is obvious she will leave with u in a heart beat. But don't be selfish because this is someones life your working with. Oh yea and get some counseling 4 that argument you keep fighting about
good luck:)
2006-11-14 18:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sick As It Gets on my space 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Drama DRAMA DRAMA!!!!
If there is this much hesitation, move on. Seriously. Once a connection was had and life was good...obviously there is resistance to moving forward.
So, move on. This much drama isn't worth it. Go find yourself a healthy, loving relationship with a stable person. I gaurantee you will be happier than you are now.
Relationships shouldn't cause misery. Relationships shouldn't cause stress. If they do, move on. Problems are okay, but if you fight, well that is silly. If you calmly and rationally discuss things and respect boundaries...then you are in a relationship that is stable. If you work together, great....but fight...no.
Move on. Take the email as a sign to dump, dump and go away.
2006-11-14 17:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Talk to her and share your feelings. Even if you don't plan on marrying her or dating her, just the fact that she sent you that email shows that she should not be marrying another man! She needs to realize that marriage is a LIFE LONG commitment and she can't go into a marriage with a man when she is writing emails to you that are this deep. She is about to make the biggest mistake of her life and YOU need to stop her!
2006-11-14 17:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. she shouldn't be emailing this to you...she should be talking to her husband-to-be about her mixed up feelings.
2. she should NOT be getting married to anyone right now.
3. It also sounds like she is trying to "feel you out" before she decides what she's going to do....but that's wrong...you don't decide to marry someone based on if SOMEONE else likes you.
4. it does sound like she really cares about you....If she truly loves you and if you love her..she needs to cancel the engagement FIRST...then you two can take it from there.
BEST of luck with this hun!
2006-11-14 17:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let's get something straight.. if she is getting married she has to be the big girl and decide yes or no..
her feelings for you could be true and they could also be confusion from the marriage.
if you want to tell her than yeah you care about her...and define in what sense, but don't expect it to change her mind.
2006-11-14 17:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very confused and said in there that she loves you-but she will never allow herself to love you. What is her problem? She sounds like trouble to me. Leave this girl be.
2006-11-14 17:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming she's not marrying you>???? Dude she 's into you but becareful don't be the reason she calls off the wedding
No one reads all the way through do they? They think you're marrying her
2006-11-14 17:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly sounds like this girl isn't ready for marrige. She might have feelings for you, but to get involved would be stupid, because that could be you being left at the altar
2006-11-14 17:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really do care about her tell her just that and you wanna stop the fighting just as much as she does??
2006-11-14 17:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by lilcutiebotie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋