my bf and i broke up yestorday and we have been off and on since the 7th grade and now im a junior in high school. We broke up yestorday was because in his words "i flirt with lots of girls and sometimes it leads to other things and i dont want to hurt you" and in his words again "you know i love you and i know you love me". I have to see him everyday in the hallways. Just this morning he came in my homeroom and was like just bcuz we broke up doesnt mean i cant hug you. HELP!!!
2006-11-14 09:44:55 · 18 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Set some boundries. Tell him that is painful for you to hang out like nothing happened and that if he wants to break up then you are going to need your space. It will be hard, but it's the right thing. Figure you what works for you and what boundries you want to set.
2006-11-14 09:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It had to end sometimes. You didn't actually think you were going to marry some guy you met in 7th grade did you?
He did you a favor by being honest with you. If you don't want him around you, you should outright tell him to leave you alone and then make sure you stay away from him.
2006-11-14 09:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing last year. Its hard and it sucks. I didn't get over him untill the school year ended and I didn't have to see him everyday (with another girl) now were good friends and only friends, I hate to say it but I think the only way to get over him is to avoid him, even though it will be hard. Good Luck!
2006-11-14 09:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're uncertain on the topic of the breakup, and thinking you could provide it yet another flow, then it is okay. If there is not any risk, then it is not any longer. it could grow to be very annoying to an ex to get carry of consistent texts from an ex by way of fact he could be attempting to flow on previous you presently, extremely in case you have been the initiator of the breakup, and does not desire to pay attention from you. yet once you think of you are going to objective him returned, a minimum of enable him be attentive to in a textual content cloth that it is a risk.
2016-12-14 07:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's happening to you too. i'm in high school and my ex and i have also been on and off since 7th grade. he's in a higher grade level by one year. try an isolation period, tell him ur not talking to him for a month, avoid him, if he says anything to you with in the month he cares' but after five days you should be over him, try it, it works. And so you won't focus your attention to him look out for cute guys to stare at.
2006-11-14 09:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about him and if you have been on and off since the 7th grade then the truth probally is that he don't love you.Don't pay attention to him when he tells you he loves you so just ignore him, and that's the best you can do.
2006-11-14 09:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was only yesterday so it will get easier to see him. Keep your distance outside the classroom if you can. Be glad that he still wants to be friends also. Lots of guys will run a mile after they break up with a girl. Just smile and be polite to him. I reckon you'll get back together anyway.
2006-11-14 09:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to have a steady bf. it sounds like he might be sexually active so sound like you are allot better off without him. Oh by the way love hurts. you are young in time it will not hurt any more. I'm sorry you hurt. Good luck
2006-11-14 09:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound
2006-11-14 09:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by jasonsmithmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, childhood love! Listen up honey.....it's no big thing. Just stay away from him. This heartache is nothing compared to the ones you can look forward to in the years to come.
2006-11-14 09:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋