Anyone has gone out with a successful man, always surrounded by beautiful women?
This is my situation, we just started dating, I can't work out whether he likes me or not. We had two dates so far, he is cool about seing me once a week and a bit distant but very sweet and gentlemen when he is with me. He doesn't say he likes me, just sais we have chemistry ...
Is he in love...?
2006-11-14 09:41:49 · 16 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Er...I can't see it happening. You're a possession, a plaything, an accessory, not a person who has thoughts and feelings.
2006-11-14 09:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious, after two dates, have you had sex with him? Just go with the flow, but if he seems distant it's because he's not ready to settledown, he's just probably playing you for what it's worth. He's definitely not in love, and what makes you think he's a playboy/player did he tell you that?
See other guys, don't put your focus just on him and if you're falling this fast definitely put some distance between you two.
2006-11-14 09:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is a player. He doesn't want to give up his options and neither should you. You want a fling, go for it (with protection, who knows how many partners there have been) but that is all it will ever be. I fell HARD for a player and I truly believed that he loved me... This was 5 or 6 years ago but it is still not east to admit that I got played. He will still be single and playing long after you find the love of your life.
2006-11-14 09:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Amy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, maybe you are, IN LOVE! HE'S a PLAYER! He knows what to say to win your confidence. If you just want to have a good time then fine, but when your emotions get involved, pull out. This is what players do. Play his game, have some fun, and once you master this game, you will actually be able to spot these kind of people a mile away. Its nothing really wrong with playing, but at the same time, if you get caught up, it hurts like hell. Guys really do not play for sex, thats a given, we play to see you perk up, smile, and be happy. Its when we realize that this is as happy as she is going to get, thats when we bail. Take for instance a shy woman who is insecure with herself, well, we open her up to life and when she's there, we move on. Think of it as springtime and she's the flower.
2006-11-14 09:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I was lucky enough to have made as wise a decision in love as I did in the rest of my life. Because i valued myself, I would never get into a relationship where i would be subject to harm. I might not succeed in the relationship but it wouldn't be because i was being put down or harmed in any way. The risk of rejection is worth the reward but i always made sure that the person was one who was simply making a decision in her own best interest, not doing something to harm me intentionally.
2016-03-19 08:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not yet, i mean two dates is a short time to fall in love. but i think he's getting there. give him some time and show him why your better then any of the other women he can be with.
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2014-09-22 04:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! This must be kind of an awkward situation for you. It's hard to say what he feels about you. If I where you girl, I wouldn't get to comfortable with him, just keep it play by play and then see what happens. Good Luck!!
2006-11-14 09:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Barrelracergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely not...and it'll probably take a lot more time than 2 dates for him to fall in love with you...
I fear though, that since you are already worried about this, chances are you will scare him off before he really gets a chance to know you.
SLLLOOOOOWWWW WAAAYYYYY down...and enjoy your dates together...you will know soon enough it your relationship is progressing.
If he falls in love...you wont have to ask anyone else about it...you will know.
2006-11-14 09:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shakira 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
2 dates? well yea he probably LIKES you.or he wouldnt bother. but if YOU think you could fall for him , think carefully because he possibly is looking for a notch on the bedpost (chemistry means sex) Ide say you should date others and keep cool regarding him cos hes obviously used to women being hooked on him..then see what develops xx
2006-11-14 10:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by wickedsoul132 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋