my bf and me broke up yestorday because he told me "my parents and my sister dont think we should be together". but get this, the story changes today.He wrote me a note saying that we need to talk and we both cant stall. so at lunch (im a junior in high school) and i sit with him and he said the reason we broke up was because "i flirt alot with other girls and i dont know how to control myself." then he says "you know that i love you and i know that you love me too!" i was like aight but i do miss him. should i move on or try to make this work!
2006-11-14 09:13:07 · 5 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we been off and on since the 7th grade
2006-11-14 09:19:28 · update #1
IF that's the reason why he left you then he got rid of you with out blamming his self. If he changed his story then that means he found another excuse to break up with you so it wouldn't look so evil on his part. Maybe you flirt a lot but come' on like HE DOESN"T, everyone flirts, and there's nothing wrong with that unless it goes farther than that. Talk to him and tell him, to tell you the truth, what's the reall reason he left you. It'll have to come out sooner or later. Talk to him one on one and tell him you want honesty.
2006-11-14 09:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he broke up with you, then changes his story about why he broke up with you. Now you want to get back together with him?? he's playing games. i would suggest being single for a while, figure out what it is you really want in a guy, and in a relationship, then if you look at him, and he fills all those things, go out again then, but still, be single for a while befor making any decisions.
2006-11-14 17:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you're in high school. There are better things for you to focus on, like school and college. You are so young, and you should be having fun. And you shouldn't have to worry about a guy who is constantly flirting.
2006-11-14 17:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's afraid to commit to the relationship so he broke up with and now he's finding excuses for that.
2006-11-14 17:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by glorious_depression 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you think i think he can control himself but its your life do what you think is right
2006-11-14 17:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋