He told me he loves me and everything and then like 2 days later he starts going out with some other girl that he never even talked to! Now that they are going ut they dont talk at all. All they do is sit there and hold hands and stuff. They have been together for a month and they havent even kissed yet! But he still writes me notes and told me he will always love me and stuff. Well im in love with him. When im with him or around him i loose my breathe and i get weak in the knees and stuff. So yea i dont know what i should do. Should i wait for them to break up cuz i know they are cuz she gets bored really easy? Or should try to break them up? Or just move on or soemthing?
2006-11-14 09:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Sabrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wise up. He's playing you.
2006-11-14 09:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pure infatuation.
I'm sorry, but what you're experiencing is something commonly mistaken as love when you're younger. That's pretty much the reason why there's so much heartbreak in teen years.
I wouldn't get too worked up about it.
I say just move on because when he realizes that she's not right for him, he'll try to come back to you. Just move on, and find someone else. It'll give him a dose of his own medicine.
I went through the same thing, and still am, only I don't give a rats-*** how compatible he is with his new gf, even though he still likes me.
I don't like him, I found someone perfect for me.
And you should, too.
Because obviously, it's not him.
And never try to break people up.
That just makes you look bad on so many levels and who would want to go out with someone who's a backstabbing, lying, sneeeeeeeky girl?
Yeah, no one.
2006-11-14 09:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound a lot like me. i have known this guy for about 10 years. he is seeing someone. we have always said we were going to end up together, but i'm asking my self the same question, should i wait on him, or move on. i know the 2 of them arent meant to be, kind of like you do, but what else can we do? nothing really, sit back, try to make a hard decision. wait, or just leave, contiune being friends and forget about all the feelings?~ i really dont have any help....i'm in the same boat, and would love to know the answer to this AWESOME question myself!!!
2006-11-14 09:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Erica Rene'e!!~~** 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he lied about caring for you. And he's being deceitful to his girlfriend when he sends you notes. He's a jerk. Move on. If you become his girlfriend, he'll probably be telling some other girl he loves her and sending her notes. Stay away from him.
2006-11-14 09:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you hav found something rare with him. if you truly do feel this way about him u should be upfront with him and tell him how you feel. if he continues seeing this other girl it means he really dosent feel as strongly about u as he sez. but then again you should be worried about the fact that he hooked up with this girl 2 days after telling you he loves you and is going out with this girl and professing his love to you at the same time. is he just a player?
2006-11-14 09:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by SHRee P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know that this other girl isn't right for him? You dont' really have the right to judge this situation...you aren't him and you can't read his mind. He chose her, not you. For whatever reason, he chose her. do not try and break them up...that is the crappiest thing to do. Would you want someone to do that to you....and say you weren't right for your boyfriends, blah, blah, blah. Leave it alone.
2006-11-14 09:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! He probably said that in hopes you'd have sex with him and then he found someone else that would so now he loves them.
2006-11-14 09:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should move on bc if he's dating sum1 else means ur a re-bound...... but u nvr know he may like u, jst try to move on and if they end then wait till he comes to you and if he doesn't u better of moved on
2006-11-14 09:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a "booty call"
Move on untill they break up... and if you want to get back together ask him out.
2006-11-14 09:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by mikey_guinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u can trust the guy. if he's going out with someone else, he shouldn't be writing u notes and stuff.
If he's not being honest with the girl he's dating now, what makes u think he'll be honest with you?
2006-11-14 09:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Luken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋