i m just 19 years old guy..... a 23 year old gal livd in front of our house...we have gud relations with that family.she proposd me for friemdship .. i said ok... we become friends. now she told me that she loves me.. but i dont love her still i thought about her as a gud friend....... but now she is crossing the limits... last night i was alone at night in my house she came at night to me& askd me to have sex with her ... i was too scard as i havnt done anything like that before & also i dont know xctly what to do ...... me & my God only knew how i stopd her ... but now again she expose a lot in front of me.... but i sacred too much.. so plz suggest what shuld i do to control her....
2006-11-14 08:55:29 · 24 answers · asked by hotaile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you've stopped wanting 'homo sex'?
Well, bully for you.
If it was me, I'd find better things to do than troll.
2006-11-14 08:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Youre 19! Be a man and stand up for yourself. If you want to be kind,,, just tell her firmly she's going way too fast and she needs to slow down. Way down. If she won't take that as a no, go to a different room, get out of the house, whatever it takes put physical distance between you two until she cools down her hormones. If she starts taking her clothes off, stop her by preventing her by pulling her clothes back on. Get her a dildo or something! Maybe you should get out and meet some girls your own age and level of experience. Plenty of non-crazy chics out there. Sounds like she needs to go out and meet more men too. You two sound like a "convenience by proximity" couple.
2006-11-14 09:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO! You have to stand up for yourself and tell her that you are only interested in her as a friend and nothing more. Otherwise this girl is going to keep walking all over you. I think she is confused as to where she stands with you. Let her know NOW. I would tell her that it is not appropriate for her to come over to your house like that either. You don't have to put up with that.
2006-11-14 08:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is stay away from her at all cost if you're home alone and someone knocks on the door don't open it which exposes herself just turn away that's the best you can do to block
2006-11-14 09:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in broad daylight You are not intrested in her.
You are religious man. {huge turn off} for most folks just wanting sex. You do not want sex with her at all. In those words.
Lock your doors and don't answer them for her at all. TURN off the lights and just stay quiet for a few days. She will get the message unless you are sending mixed signals.
2006-11-14 08:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she skanky or something why don't you want to.
Any way best thing to do is not let yourself be along with her. and bveware of her sneaking into your house. I had a gf once that snuck into my house and I woke up to a fatastic *******. But I wanted it, lol
2006-11-14 09:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and learn how to spell and speak. Then you will not lack for the words to explain to the girl why you don't want her.
2006-11-14 09:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to work on a GED and don't let her pressure you into something you don't want to do. If I thought you were real smart I'd be inclined to say find out if she has an STD.
2006-11-14 09:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. Tell her how you feel and that you don't feel comfortable in any sexual way. Tell her you want to take things easy and to just be friends for now.
2006-11-14 08:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Susa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was really hard to read....you're 19 you sure? tell your parents if you can't control her yourself....BE A MAN STAND UP TO HER
2006-11-14 08:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋