My fiance and I are both virgins because we believe in the sanctity of marriage. So, I really don't know anything about this stuff. Sometimes I'll just be rubbing my hand on his thigh, and he tells me to stop because I'll "start something." I wan to know what to expect. What is it exactly that happens to him?
2006-11-14 08:50:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, even if you have never had sex, if you are engaged then more than likely you should be old enough to answer this question on your own.
If not, then ask yourself this:
What happens to YOU when he kisses you with passion?
The answer to that (and to be quite blunt) is that you feel a shiver down your spine and your genitals start getting wet.
Your genitals getting wet is the same thing as his penis getting hard. Its a physical reaction to certain emotional, physiological, and/or physical stimuli.
"Starting something" in his terms means "Sweetie, if you wanna lose your virginity before we get married, keep on rubbing"
He knows how important it is for you guys to be virgins until married, but at the same time he's wanting to have sex with you SOOO badly. And his penis getting hard is rock-solid proof. Pun intended.
Hope this helps... :)
2006-11-14 09:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by staggvocals 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-25 00:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys is that a hard one to answer in a few words,.
But first I commend both of you for your stand keep up till your married you'll never regret it.
Guys are turned on by looks of what they see and buy touch that's why you need to be careful of what you touch or where you touch. It's impossible to answer your question without getting graphic and I don't think you would understand just follow both of your hearts holding is only in just two gentle little kisses and you'll be okay
2006-11-14 08:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood rushes from the brain, hormones flood the bloodstream, all judgement is impaired, and we think selfishly about ejaculating.
2006-11-14 08:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting 'hard'... if he had any self control he'd be able to keep going with a hard dick, and not rip your clothes off... but at least he's smart enough to know to stop...
2006-11-14 08:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are books about how the human body work,or watch some porn mabye you'll get some idea...
anyhow, is there anything happening to you??? just curious, don't shoot!!!
2006-11-14 08:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all sensibility goes rite out the window
2006-11-14 08:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making him hard, and Turing him on.
2006-11-14 08:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... you've missed out on a lot of important experience's, corz yuh believe in a lot of cr*p!.... Abstinence.... huh!.. what a joke!...
2006-11-14 09:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
haha his dick is getting hard..he is starting to want sex.. ur obviously turning him on!
2006-11-14 08:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋