I have met this great guy with whom I could have a fling without my boyfriend finding out. My sex life is awful and I would do it just for the pleasure of it. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I care for him. The other person is good just for having sex and nothing more. I'm thinking : just for one time so that I can get it out of my system. Should I go for it or is it immoral?
2006-11-14 08:45:26 · 12 answers · asked by lazy shadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uummmm kinda obvious answer if you really do care for your bf
2006-11-14 08:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by THEONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your boyfriend, break up with him now. It sounds like you will have a fling - if its not with this guy, you will eventually down the road. Especially since the sex with your boyfriend is probably not going to get much better... and sex is an important part of a relationship.... I think you should break up with your boyfriend, and remain friends with him since you do care about him.
2006-11-14 16:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in love with your boyfriend, you will feel guilty so don't do it. If you just care about your boyfriend and don't see a future with him other than friends, then it is time to move on. Be honest with your b/f first and then go for it. I know self control can be hard! Good luck
2006-11-14 16:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by cammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong.. no matter how you cut it.
caring and wanting to be in a relationship with someone is totally different.
you need to break up with him if you aren't happy, and if you aren't happy with your sex life you will be unhappy everywhere else in due time.. so balls up and cut the tie. yeah, it sucks, and yeah he might get hurt..but you can't live your life in regards to other people. you need to live it for you.
yes, cheating on him only b/c you can get away with it is wrong. sorry.. sex is great and all..and if you can have a great little fling with someone that's great, but do it when your heart isn't supposed to belong to another..
2006-11-14 16:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all need a good orgasm once in a while. Just because you have sex with another does not mean you think less or care less for the steady. I say go get laid have a good orgasm and keep your mouth shut about it. I guess you should keep the guys name and number for future reference though, another good one may be necessary.
2006-11-14 16:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by D J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh come now ... dont cheat! Give your boyfriend the respect of lettign him no you didnt do the worst possible thing you coudl do in a relationship. tell your boyfriend that you dont like the sexual relationship that you have with him and tell him what you like and try making it work ... if you cheat and he founds out your relationship with your boyfriend will end .... and if you love him like you say then i wouldnt go for it
2006-11-14 16:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing your a hoe. if your not in love with him then why in hell did you two date in the first place. you better use some kind of protection if you decide to do it with some other guy. who knows what any of these guys have now in days.
wish you some ****** luck!!!!!1
2006-11-14 16:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your boyfriend - You know it's wrong!
2006-11-14 16:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your second guessing yourself... if it weren't completly wrong, you wouldn't have to ask... your asking some one here to justify you stepping out on your boyfriend... if you want out, then get out, if you want to stay with him, then stay with him. nothing in between...
2006-11-14 16:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't cheat. It will come back and bite you on the rear. What comes around, goes around.
2006-11-14 16:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋