I find it hard talking to people about how I feel unless it's family. But my boyfriend feels that I dont talk to him eunough. I want to but at the same time I just get really shy. What are some ways I could get over this or some creative ways I can talk to him? What should I do!?!
2006-11-14 08:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit back to back and just talk it'll be like your talking to yourself. plus if he gets bored he can sleep just playin.
2006-11-14 08:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by SLASHER3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as he's not any diffrent from other people if you feel very shy in front of him or just timid give it time, try practicing on the mirror with a picture of him. Or you can just tell him straight up that you feel shy around him and if he can help you face that im sure he would understand i bet after that you too would have more things to talk about.
2006-11-14 16:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are worried about something...anything... ask his advice. When he earns your trust, you will be able to share without a problem. Everyone is afraid of getting hurt, but the only way to find love is to open up and take a chance. If you don't, you will never be betrayed or hurt, but you will miss out on so many good people and experiences.
2006-11-14 16:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Amy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to talk about something, and write it down in a note and sit across from him as he responds, by note. This way, you guys can see each others face while doing this.
While you two trade notes, you will be able to tell him instead, becuz you will get comfortable with his reactions and feelings on certain things
2006-11-14 16:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is go for it. Know that you can trust him. Nothing good ever came to anyone who never took a chance. Real intimacy comes with being able to talk and share yourself with someone else....emotionally and physically. Once you start opening up, you will find it is so freeing to be able to share with someone you love and care for. It's wonderful.
2006-11-14 16:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up with, i have a hard time talking to people even those i tried to get close to...then that will lead on to what he needs to know
2006-11-14 16:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up girl.
He might like that you have confidence enough to tell him your true feelings.
2006-11-14 16:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your lips, your tongue, and your vocal chords to make an understandable noise which we call a language, and tell him how you feel!
2006-11-14 16:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By trying to do it more often. Practice on your family, I am sure they will help you
2006-11-14 16:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does you and him have instant messaging? Its easy and its not as embarrassing and you will be able to talk more.
2006-11-14 16:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋