2006-11-14 08:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by emily. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
loose twenty pounds
2006-11-14 08:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by draftboyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl we all want this to happen...lol
The fact is that he probably feels like he has more in common with his friends than he does with you. The worst thing you can do is fuss about it or give him an ultimatim.
What does he do with his friends? Maybe you could show interest in those activities. For example if they like football you could read up on it, and watch a game to see if you like it. Or play PS2 with him. If you honestly are interested in some of the things he does, tell him! But I mean only if you are genuinely interested, because sooner or later he will see if you are faking.
I don't know how old you are so I don't know if he is spending the night with you or not. If so, don't just have him over and go straight to bed. Cook dinner together, watch movies and just chill. He will start to like your home and want to be there. If you are too young for this sort of thing you can still work on finding common interests. Does he like hiking? Fishing? These are things you can invite him to do, and hopefully he will enjoy doing them with you.
However, if he continues to spend too much time with his friends you should look for someone who wants to spend time with you!
2006-11-14 08:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by ÜFÖ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the key honey, you can't MAKE anyone do anything that they don't wanna do. You need to sit down and tell him why is he spending more time with his homies than you in the first place, and you want some quality time. And if he won't give you that, then you need to hang out with your girls like he does with his friends and he'll see that he'll be missing you. And let him know that they are pleanty of men that will devote their undivided attention to YOU, so he needs to decide if he's gonna turn gay and be with his homies all the time, or if he's gonna be the boyfriend and give you the attention and time that you want. Another thing is too that men have a mantra of having a "tighter circle" when it comes to hanging out.. when us women hang out, and our man calls, oh we gone.. but when the boys go out to play.. they ain't coming home til' they good and ready. So don't really go off on him, but you need to just express your concerns and make him squeeze you in, or his friends can get with your friends and make it an outting.. Going bowling is fun to go with a lot of people... going out to eat, movies, stuff like that so you have some time in, but he's not away from the pack either. Good luck with that girl...
2006-11-14 08:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how long you have been together with him. The longer you are with your boyfriend, the more likely he will be spending more and more time with you because he is becoming more attached to you. Try talking to him about it. I'm guessing that you are feeling a little neglected??? Ask him to include you sometimes when he hangs out with his friends and ask him to try and make some more alone time for the two of you. But tread lightly on this situation, friends are very important to guys and he doesn't want to feel like you are trying to tear him away from them.
2006-11-14 08:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing...ignore the obnoxious PIG answers that some of these guys left.
Depending on your ages...he may need or want a little space. I would not be over aggresive or confrontational about it with him.
Will he not do things with you and his friends at the same time? or do you not like his friends? or his friends not like you?
If any of those are the case, it could be a rough road. Both the friends and the girl/boy friend should be open and accepting of the other.
They should not be picking who he chooses to be with, and you cannot choose his friends.
If that is a longer answer than you expected...
and assuming that TIME is the only issue
Focus on the QUALITY of the time and not the QUANTITY...and just be yourself.
Isn't that who you want him to be with?
2006-11-14 09:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Randal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always want to spend time with their friends, that is common nature, but what you can do is maybe establish certain days that are "friend" days and certain days where it is just you two that hang out, and maybe a day where couples go out or hang out together
2006-11-14 08:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship u need balance, your own lives. he needs u but he needs his friends too. its one thing to be the most important thing in his life, but ur not the only important thing. Id never give up 30 of my best friends for 1 girl
2006-11-14 09:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by scott nj 23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you spend time with him you can do something together that's the point do smthg both of you like you have to share smthg that he cant share with his friends remember the happy times
2006-11-14 08:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by beramedus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more interesting and fun to be around than them.
2006-11-14 08:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot "make" anyone do anything. You have to be more special than his friends.
2006-11-14 08:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by SevenZulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a BJ
2006-11-14 08:42:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋