Im dating this guy we been together for 7 months but there is this other guy that I knew 4 like a year. He likes me and wants to be with me but I have a man. I fight alot with my man and the other guy is soo sweet 2 me. I dont know what to do. There is also anothher guy that wants 2 date me but I dont know what to do about the other guys. I love the guy im with but the other guys are real cool with me. So its hard 2 be friends with 2 guys that want 2 date me. So I dont know what guy I should talk 2 anymore.
2006-11-14 08:24:31 · 8 answers · asked by becky s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe u and ur man fight because he feels that ur not sure and that ur about to dump him.
and really, u were w/ ur bf for 7 MONTH and ur still together. and the other guys r probably nice to u cause they know that this is the only way to get to ur heart. so think about it, maybe once 1 of them has u, they will go like oh who cares now, and all u will have is this jerk that treats u like cr@p.
so stay w/ the guy, and tell the other 1s that theres no way ur dumping ur bf, that's the best thing to do
2006-11-14 08:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going through this right now. and was gonna ask this same damn question. Your problem is a bit different from mine though. Yours seems a lot simpler.. The way I see is it that you may love your current guy but not really IN love with him. You should tell him that you want to take a break to see what else is out there. and if you end up going back to him well then you know he's the one if not well then you know he's not.
2006-11-14 16:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nina R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound on the younger side. Which means, the guy you're with now is probably not gonna be your life partner. No worries, you just need to break it to him gently. You should break up with him basically. You need to date around more in life. You have to play the field before you find yourself and find a winner. And that takes YEARS. You're still growing and maturing and so is everyone else :). Now, this doesn't mean you should CHEAT when I say play the field. It simply means, don't feel you need to stick with one guy forever. You have to decide what you want. You'll figure it out sooner or later ;).
2006-11-14 16:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, you don't love your boyfriend. Not based on this post. If you are fighting a lot you need to seriously ask yourself why you are together. If you decide to break it off get to know other guys better but don't start another relationship until you are completely ready and have completely decided on just one.
2006-11-14 16:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called "dating" go out with all of them and let them know you are going out with others until you make your decision, then once you make a decision be faithful. Always be truthful!
2006-11-14 16:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need the freedom to roam the range!
Date them all.
Why not!
2006-11-14 16:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy you have known for a year, and treats you right.
2006-11-14 16:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Racewalking Invicta Swami 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just have to ask yourself... Which guy would Chuck Norris pick? and then stay away from that one because Chuck Norris will kill you if you mess with him. so pick the guy opposite of the guy Chuck Norris picks.
2006-11-14 16:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋