And didn't even call and thank me!! It was a funny nice card and I didn't know he got it until I asked him if he got the mail. This is the first time I've ever sent him a card.....shall I make it the last, is it not rude to acknowledge getting a card?! I thought it was a very nice gesture on my part. He said in his last relationship he learned that he needs to do more little things...but he hasn't done anything in ours either. He aparently bought me a tiffany necklace..but has yet to give it to me. When we first got together he was broke and since I had to pay for everything he said he was going to totally spoil me and buy me stuff when he got his big lump sum. We'll he got it..he took over paying for dinners..so now we're equal. But why do guys say there going to do stuff and then don't? Was that just to suck me in or what?!
2006-11-14 08:22:27 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh sweetie- guys are not gals. Sweet gestures outside of sex are really meaningless to them.
It sounds like you need to make a change.
A little less talk and a lot more action on his part.
Best wishes
2006-11-14 08:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless that he is a male, it is rude not to acknowledge the card or the thought behind it.
2006-11-14 08:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bug you. Maybe he has other things on his mind just forgot. When my cousin got married, we sent him a bunch of money. He got married in '05 and we didnt get a thank you until 06!
2006-11-14 08:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's bad gal, and remember guys will tell anything to get what their hearts desire....
2006-11-14 08:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that sucks for you
2006-11-14 08:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋