I AM THE TYPE OF KID WHO ALWAYS GETS MADE FUN OF AND THIS GIRL IS LIKE MY BEST FRIEND. BUT SHE SMOKES. (SAID SHE WAS GONNA QUIT BUT YEAH) SO IF I ASK HER OUT SHE MIGHT SAY NO AND I WOULD GET MADE FUN OF. SHE IS A SKATER AND I WAS TOO AND THERE WAS A LOT OF PROBLEMS LIKE WITH HER PAST BFS CUZ THEY YELLED AT ME AND STUFF CUZ I HUGGED HER. SO SHOULD I ASK HER OUT??? OH AND IM 14 TOO AND SHE IS TOO
2006-11-14 08:13:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are afraid she will go tell people that you asked her if she says no... Then I definitely wouldn't ask her out. Hold out for someone you know you can trust not to be part of a team that would humiliate you or make fun. Think more of yourself and others will follow. Don't be easy for others to make fun of. Sometimes you can do nothing ... I know. Believe me... I know. But, if you don't stand up for yourself and demand respect (and respect yourself) then no one else will. I hope you have a wonderful rest of the day and God bless you!
2006-11-14 08:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you feel is the right thing to do. Or, do nothing at all. You're in charge of your own life and whatever you do about this situation will affect you for the rest of your life. Then again, I'm in love and involved with older woman so maybe I'll shut up and focus on my own relationship and let you be the author of your own destiny. Good luck!
2006-11-14 08:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Glen Quagmire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, she will never make fun of you. Just try it. Remember that the things that do not kill us, can only make us stronger. Do not become a victim of your situation, ignore the teasers, they are only jelous of you. Keep fighting, do not let anybody hold you back. Someday, if not now, with this girl, you will succeed in doing something great. Good luck.
2006-11-14 08:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by krisi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know until you try. ive learn from expirence. TRUST ME! you might not want to do it because youll get made fun of, but if you REALLY like her, youd forget about the other losers.
2006-11-14 08:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you are making this too difficult. No one else's opinion of this girl, or you for that matter, matters. Other peoples' opinions are NOT that important.
2006-11-14 08:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and ask her out!! Even if she rejects and you get ridiculed for it, tell yourself you have tried!!! Its better than wondering later, what might have been!!!
2006-11-14 08:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just ask her what is the worst that she can say. she is not into sensible guys
2006-11-14 08:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Josh Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking at 14. Dude she's crazy. I'm 13 maybe i should try.AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 08:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if u were suppose to ask her out wat would she say or ask her to the movies but dont let her know ur asking her out.
2006-11-14 08:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Krysan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way just masterbate and forget her
2006-11-14 08:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by t_tot_43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋