How would I get guys to notice me or even like me?
2006-11-14 08:03:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe it or not....you are in the drivers seat. We are totally two different species when it comes to physical attraction. Guys do notice you even though you may not think they do. You would be so surprised to find out that they would probably even want to court you. Guys are funny. We are creatures of habit. One of the bad habits that most guys have is the fear of rejection. It is this fear that prevents us from asking a girl out. Also, we usually figure that the girl probably has some "stud" already. Alot of the times, this isn't the case. So....we always like the female to give us some clue as to how they feel about us. A note, gesture or third party communication through a friend. As soon as we get that one opportunity...were like bark on a tree and it is hard to pull us off. My suggestion is that you give the guy you like a simple clue as how you feel about him. Even if it is in a subtle way. He is waiting for approval to make that move.
2006-11-14 08:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Your P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - so many girls work hard to be pretty that - focusing on your outward appearance is hardly something that will stand out in the crowd. Although normal showering and self care is key! Think about this - what if you were to do things that were just really nice like smiling - even when they didn't smile at you and looking for opportunities to just be nice. If you see someone drop something - helping them out or being nice to some outcast kind of person. Offering to help someone who is struggling in an area in school where you really excel. Things like that. Those are likely to get a person noticed in this day and age!
2006-11-14 16:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic, love. As long as they don't patronize you, you'll be alright sweetheart. Ah! Isn't she lovely? It could be your height, my darling. Try wearing high-heals so they can see you when you're with your taller friends. Ah! Never mind.
Nah - take a joke I'm only joking. A tip? Men like women with confidence and a smile. If you work on your confidence and brush your teeth, you'll be fighting the guys off with your umbrella.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 16:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by gulliblepeople 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy will definitely get you male attention but if you want a guy to be willing to stick around around for you just being who you are then you have to become great at being your individually unique self and never compromise your own values for anything less than true love.
2006-11-14 16:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys gravitate towards self-confidence.... learn to love yourself and be a positive spirit... I met my guy with three gorgeous women sitting at a table with me... why did he approach me? Cuz I was laughing, having a good time, enjoying myself... smiling, and he says it was obvious that I was positive and upbeat. My girlfriends? All hunched over, mad at the world, not a smile on any of their faces!!!
2006-11-14 16:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you stop trying and become confident in yourself it will happen. I was never a real relationship interest in high school but once i graduated and became okay with myself things changed dramatically
2006-11-14 16:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Beck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easy answer is to rip your top off:)
that'll get you noticed...
now, to get noticed and not arrested is another thing:)
I would say, try to make friends with guys... many guys become 'interested' in girls their friends with... it also gives you a chance to get to know them better...
personally, i don't date some one unless we're friends first because i want to get to know some one a little befor there's the presure of 'dating'...
2006-11-14 16:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't worry so much about what guys want concentrate on being the best you you can be and then worry about the guys.
2006-11-14 16:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking around topless has been known to produce good results...
2006-11-14 16:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't act fact because then he won't like the real you!
2006-11-14 16:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋