I'm 14 and i slept with a 23 year old HOT punk guy. I dont think it's wrong becuz i love him. He's getting married now.
2006-11-14 07:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should go to jail for that and you should feel ashamed not proud.
2006-11-14 07:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by A Yahoo! user 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to be involved in a physical relationship and all the mature feelings that go along with that. You're experiencing your first broken heart by an older guy that should have known better. Just think of it this way, if you wouldn't have had sex with this older guy, would you still use the word love when you refer to him. Of course not! He had sex, you made love. He has moved on, and now you need to do the same. Next time, don't rush into a physical relationship, and give your feelings a chance to develop without the physical part of the relationship so you don't cloud your feelings. Lust and chemistry between two people are instantaneous; but love takes time to develop. Maturity takes time to develop too, and a mature woman would not have had to ask what people thought about her relationship with a 23 year old man. You are young, and deserve to experience love from someone you age and on your level. When you do experience true love, you will look back at this experience and understand that this was not love at all, just a physical encounter that should have never taken place. That's what I think.
2006-11-14 16:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got yourself into a terrible situation. I do not want to judge you, so I will try to ignore the fact that you are under aged.
To put it plain and simple, the man is using you. Forget about him because he is trash. I know you might not believe me, but I was also your age once. When you are 14, your world is still very small. You still need to meet a lot of people, and learn a lot about people.
Lesson 1: If a guy loves you he will not marry or kiss or shag someone else.
Lesson 2: Always remember that a guy will say anything to get a nice/pretty girl in bed.
Lesson 3: You deserve only the best, and he is not it. There is more to life than punk rockers (maybe you should go to a clinic, because rock stars have the tendency to carry rashes).
Do not throw your life away on him, he is not worth the effort. There is someone so much better waiting for you in future, who will spoil you rotten. Good luck!
2006-11-14 15:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by krisi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's he getting married to (thats the bigg question) firstly he could be charged for RAPE should your parents find out and ya i think he is a punk too... to sleep with a minor..
2006-11-14 15:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Thobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doest matter if you love him or not...he's getting married and you were pretty much a one night stand....what the hell..shouldnt you be thinking about barbies and school..you have no idea what love means and you shouldnt be having sex with a 23 year old....
2006-11-14 15:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your Head a shake then open the school books and start taking care of your future.
14, ARE YOU INSANEEEEEEEEEEE.
2006-11-14 15:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are 14 you think you are in love with any dumb a**. which this guy is for even sleeping with you. no future there move on.
2006-11-14 15:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lolita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have waited for someone who was willing to stay with you afterwards. you were just a last time booty call before he got married.
2006-11-14 15:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love a guy like that in fact......He is lookin for real trouble by having sex with you, don think about it he is not the company you're lookin for belive me
2006-11-14 15:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just got used!! Find someone your own age & you may think that you love him, but you don't.
2006-11-14 15:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by MEYost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋