People always say im extremely mature for my age and that I have good common sense. I'm 15 and laterly i've been confussed about the age difference between me and this wonderful guy that i like. He's been a family friend for a long time. Well, when it was just me and him talkign together i kinda let it slip that i had a huge crush on him and he told me he has a crush on me too. He said he wanted to be with me and i really want to be with him too. I know he's not the type of guy to just say something just to say it. He means what he says and thats one thing that i like about him. Well, you see,its a 7 years age difference between me and him and i dont know if i should go for it ... please help!
2006-11-14 07:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem lies more on your age if it's illegal in your area for someone of your age to have a relationship with anyone.
In the meantime, if it's illegal, then have the relationship, but lay low for awhile until you're old enough.
Other than, I see no problem.
Just ask you parents or guardians for permission first.
2006-11-15 00:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like each other, and if he cares about you wait until your 18... there can be many problems with that... there are laws against a 15 year old and a 22 year old being together... 7 years isn't bad you just need to wait and remain friends. he may be a family friend and your parents like him now, but they may not like him as much if they knew he wanted to be with their 15 years old daughter.
my bf is about 15 1/2 years older than me im 23 and he just turned 39 he would kill me if he knew i said that lol... ( he doesn't look 39 he looks like hes 27 ) but anyway we love each other very much.. i meet him when i was 15 ( he was 30 ) but we never did anything... we meet up again when i was 20 and we been together ever since.. just wait you will be happy in the long run.
2006-11-14 15:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by summer ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dearest, i know its a crush, but you are too young still... he's 22, thats too old for right now... you need to be a bit older.. maintain friendship, but do not let it go further than that until you are 18 or so.. if you really are meant for each other, then it will happen... this is a serious step to look at, at your age... talk it over with your parents...
2006-11-14 15:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't!! If he is 7 years older than you he is 22 and you are a minor. That's what pedophiles do, they earn your trust so that you will think that you are doing the right thing. You need to go to the police right now because he needs to be put in jail! Tell your parents, now!
2006-11-14 15:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by tmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're underaged and it's against the law. He could get into a lot of trouble. You need to find someone in your own age bracket...
2006-11-14 15:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he treats you with respect, the age difference means nothing. when I was 18 yrs. old I dated a 38 yr. old man and we got along just fine. Don't stress about the age difference because if you do wind up hooking up, it will ruin your relationship
2006-11-14 15:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by brntdent 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really cares ask him to wait 3-4 years when you are old enough.
2006-11-14 15:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you wpould want to have a partner witin 2-5 years of your age, not generations apart.
2006-11-14 15:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. As I always say, "Love and lust know no limitations." Although..considering the situation..in my oppinion I dont recomend that you go for it. Your' family sure wont like it and it's illegal.
2006-11-14 15:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by AndrewL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it matter ... 7 years age gap is ok if ur 30 ... not 15 ... and he would be breaking the law if u had sex...
2006-11-14 15:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋