Or would you rather give him some signals, (smile, eye contact) for him to come over and talk to you? Basically, if you don't even look at a guy, does that mean, don't bother coming over to talk?
2006-11-14 07:06:22 · 13 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No looking = No talking.
2006-11-14 07:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind at all - if I am not with someone. And I don't mean a girlfriend or even a group of friends. If I am sitting with a guy - don't come over. It happens all the time and whether I am 'with' that person or not, it is disrespectful to them because the person approaching doesn't know we aren't together.
That being said - I love it when guys approach me. It's great. You get to meet someone new and possibly make a friend or even better - a date! What's not to like. I don't need someone to wait for a signal...that's ridiculous. What if I never see the guy, don't give "the" signal and miss out on someone great? I'd be sad about that. So I say - go ahead...what's the harm in talking to someone? And if a girl acts like there's a problem...the problem is with her - not you! I think it takes a confident man to approach a woman. And confidence is sexy!
Good luck!
2006-11-14 07:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's start with the first one. Some girls do mind, some don't. Lots of girls do give signals, like the ones you listed. And yes, it does mean come over and talk. And if a girl doesn't look at you at alll, it either means she is shy or does not want to talk to you.
2006-11-14 07:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kiely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The signals are all fun. It's flirting. But there's nothing wrong with walking up to someone and starting conversation. That's the only way to break the ice and know for sure. Just because we're not looking doesn't always mean we're not interested. Maybe she just hasn't noticed you yet. If you get blown off you get blown off. On to the next girl. Go for it. Just don't hound her. If you get the signal that she's not interested back off.
2006-11-14 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on the kind of person. If she is not looking around she is not interested most of the time. She had a hard day, has a lot on her mind, or is just there to meet friends. You could always go over and talk to here though. You can't expect to click with every girl you talk to, but what have you got to lose?
2006-11-14 07:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Sometimes a guy walking up and talking to me is a nice thing if they aren't a jerk, sloppy drunk or an idiot. If they try and make out with my girlfriend and then call her a dyke when she tells him to get lost, well, I don't think I am interested in THAT! I think a guy, being polite, saying something like "Hi, my name is Tim, you are beautiful, can I buy you a drink?" is simple, polite and more likely to get respect than "Hey you you wanna go to my place after this dump closes?". Just a thought.
2006-11-14 07:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the best thing to do. Have a waiter go and offer the girl any drink of her choice from you. If she accepts then thats your cue to go talk to her if not then theres no real embarrassment! Works great. But just for the record....it doesnt bother most girls if you come over and talk to them. It just makes it harder for the girl if shes not interested!!
2006-11-14 07:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by breeokc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult males do not commonly mind-set me so yet in the journey that they did my reaction would count on the project and the appearance of the guy. If i'm strolling to my motor vehicle at nighttime i'd be scared as hell, likely no count number what the guy looked like. If i replaced into in college or someplace contained in the mild and in a danger-free position i'd experience reliable because i understand i'm not as hideous as i imagine and someone needs to study with me :D
2016-11-24 19:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..men should def.wait for the signal..do you know how annoying it is for people to just walk up to you and start talking? i hate it and i get it all of the time. then i sould like a B**** when i talk to them because i am annoyed and dont want you to come and talk to me. so yes you should def. wait for a signal befor trying to talk to a girl!
2006-11-14 07:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather give a guy the signals b/c then you both know its mutual
2006-11-14 07:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋