I can't get a girlfriend, don't think I'm a loser I have a lot of friends and I'm really funny I'm so nice I compliment this girl I like all the time I say shes beautiful I love her so much (I asked her out twice and shes said no.) she always says awww when I say shes beautiful and stuff, she really likes me as a friend and its so annoying that she says no to me all the time. Please help me. So what does a girl look for? and how can I have her want to go ut with me?
2006-11-14 07:06:15 · 17 answers · asked by Jesus C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girl looks for things she can't have. At 12, you should probably be thinking about other things, like PSPs and skateboards, but it's tough going through what you're going through. And it only gets worse(for a while, then better).
IF she says she only likes you as a friend, you're finished. Time to move on to the other fish in the sea. She'll never change her mind. Never going to happen. Sorry to be a downer but in all of history it's never happened.
And for future reference. You're 12 so take this to heart and you'll have great success with the ladies.
1) Don't ever tell them you like them. In fact, if you ignore them, they'll like you more.
2) Don't ever tell them they're beautiful, unless they are already your girlfriend, then tell them that alot.
3) Don't ever tell them you love them, at least not at your age. If she is your girlfriend, then it's Ok, but not before.
A girl looks for a guy who appears to be IN CHARGE. She doesn't dig you, blow her off. Like you could care less. There are 3 Billion women on the planet.
And don't settle for average looking either. Only go after the hottest ones. They are just the same inside as the average looking ones, they just look better, and most of the time the hottest girls are some of the lonliest ones, because boys are too afraid to ask them out. See a hottie you want? Ask her out, she says no? No biggie, the next one probably will.
Take your time. At 12 you've got plenty of it.
Peace.
2006-11-14 07:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by abrainconnected 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
They look for guys 2 or 3 grades above them. SInce your 12, you probably won't get a girlfriend unless she's 10 or 9, which probably isn't what you want at 12 years old.
And for all those people here wondering why you'd want a girlfriend at 12, they must have forgotten what it's like to be 12. I remember I had crushes on girls even in Kindergarden. I wanted a girlfriend badly with every crush. Age doesn't discriminate against when you have a crush. If you like some one, go for it and try to talk with them. You might not have sex, but you will have a great time being around her, possibly a kiss.
2006-11-14 07:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you think of her as beautiful and not hot or sexy and i think that it's cute how you say you love her and that you're not saying that the only reason you like her is that she's hot or whatever. but I have to agree with the ppl who say ur too young. But i don't agree that you have to just forget about girls 12-15 is a time to start getting more comfortable with girls and preparing to date. And if you really love her than you will have the patience to wait a few years for her and it doesn't matter if she's not younger than you if you really like her go for it once you're 16.
2006-11-14 07:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna get a lot of people telling you that you're to young for a girlfriend and to focus on school.....
Yes focus on school remember that's priority....
But I also remember how it was when I was 12....you get curious
First off stop the compliments you told her once....that's enough
Anything more than once becomes annoying....
She's so use to you paying her all this attention....ease up a while
If she likes you she'll wonder....why you haven't complimented her or that you've been a little distant....and she'll approach you...and strike up small talk or something.....if that happens that's your clue to ask her out....exchange phone #'s and start that way...
Good luck and your grades better be good.....!
2006-11-14 07:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me you are 12, too.
That's totally normal. I didn't date at 12. I have always liked guys who were losers, whether or not I realized it. Most women only date losers. Consider yourself ahead of the pack, then.
If you can't get a date, you must have something special!! When someone comes down the block who isn't into losers, then you'll have found a treasure.
2006-11-14 07:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Earth Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all 12 is too young for a GF. Can you drive her places?? Do you have a job to support on taking her out?? I didn't think so.
2006-11-14 07:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by bttf_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are older. 12 is too young to be dating. Play sports or video games with the guys.
2006-11-14 07:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look for a guy who's around 18. Wait a few years and you'll be getting all kinds of dates.
2006-11-14 07:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother too much. Be nice to girls and you will eventually find one that will fit your personality.
Other than that, you should focus on being smart and doing well at school.
2006-11-14 07:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally look for sweet and sensitive in guys. this girl might think of you as a friend. if so, look for other girls and never act like a know it all macho man. girls hate that, myself included.
2006-11-14 07:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋