or on aim. Im really shy and i probably cant do it in person. I really like her but im just dont know how i would go about doing it in person. Aim just seems easier but not as good. What should i do?
2006-11-14 07:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by ImKindaHungry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! IN PERSON ALL THE WAY
2006-11-14 07:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always in person, so she can see how much you like her. It shows more respect and confidence as well (even if you're a little nervous inside, like eveyone else). Smile and keep things positive. Don't make some big declaration of love or anything, as it'll scare her off. Start with friendly relaxed chat. See this guide to flirting to get over your shyness.
2006-11-14 15:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would maybe tell her on AIM that you want to talk to her and tell her a little bit about what you want to talk about. Then try your best to tell her how you feel in person.
Good Luck!
2006-11-14 15:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by aureliusrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that it would be hard in person but if you're going to go out you should at least know eachother well enough to talk in person and therefore at least bring it up in person.
2006-11-14 15:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by slooth130 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stap na haar to! En vra of jy haar kan vat vir n movie, of ete!! As jy dit nie nou doe nie dan gaan jy nooit!!
2006-11-14 15:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kietty Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately ask her out in person. Girls respect a guy who is striaghtforward and direct, it shows immense character. Even if she rejects you will have still gained her respect.
2006-11-14 15:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out in person...your going to be a little shy at first anywayz...its always a little bit better when you ask girls out in person.then you can see their reactions when you act and see how they react..do it in person she will love it a lot more!
best luck
2006-11-14 15:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you has to make the first step. If you really love her, you need to be confident. Make sure your first impressions catch her attention because those are very important.
2006-11-14 15:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you can't ask her out to begin with, how will you get "hi how are you?" out there on your first date... break out of the shy barrier and ask her, you will have to talk to her face to face to maintain a relationship, might as well start it off right ...
2006-11-14 15:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always in person!
2006-11-14 15:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋