I broke up with my BF who was the BEST lover I've ever had (and I've had a few..lol)I am 33. I've went 33 years without having sex that was this good & I am worried that I won't find it again. I broke up with him b/c we did not want the same things in life, but we got along very well and had great chemistry. I know I did the right thing by ending it..but I have so many regrets and I really miss the sex. Please don't suggest that I "get under" someone eolse because I just can't/don't want to do that right now. Please share ideas..thanks
2006-11-14 06:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by beautifully broken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant wait to read your answers. Im 34 and Im going through the same situation. Good luck.
2006-11-14 07:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard I know. My daughter's dad was the best sex that I had ever had with any man and I have slept with 5 men thru out my life and never have I had a man to make me feel like a high school girl every time we had sex. It was freaking fantastic. So yes I know how you feel. We broke up because he was ashamed that I was pregnant and he wanted an abortion from me. That hurt me to my hurt, because I knew then that it was over for us and the great sex. It has taken me a while to get over that and sometimes I still day dream about him but he is married now but if he came back to his home town right now I could still f*** him and i would if he weren't married. I don't do married men. I'm not a home wrecker. LOL It will take time but you will find someone who makes you feel better than he did even though it doesn't seem that way you will. God bless
2006-11-14 07:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you won't ever forget. He's the best you've had.... so far. Just be patient. When it's time for you to move on you will and you'll have someone else who's better than he was. You're going to have that "itch" though. He's all you know right now. If you are at that point in your relationship maybe you can just have sex with him. You're right in your decision. Sex is not the only reason to be with someone. There's more to a relationship than sex.
2006-11-14 07:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you've had such a wonderful experience with sex and move on. Some people go their whole life without ever knowing what good sex really is. And no, I'm not speaking from experience.
2006-11-14 07:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best and only way is to forget about the old lover
and have sex with someone else.
2006-11-14 07:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it can be really hard and even if he was the best lover, there are other BIG fish in the sea and I understand its hard for you and all......but you can draw him back by dressing smexy and letting him know in a teasing way that you want him back.
2006-11-14 07:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just got to have good luck and communicate to the next guy
help the next bone work it correctly to help you feel the same or better
2006-11-14 07:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you could handle it try to just be sex partners.
2006-11-14 07:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Christel*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to find a similar person.. Aries men really have good techniques but theyre not compatable with all signs
2006-11-14 07:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't know what to say.
2006-11-14 07:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋