Ladies. Does he want what I want?

Question

How can you really tell what a man wants from you beyond the obvious?

Answer 1

ask him what he wants life to short to play games

Answer 2

If you're forming a good relationship and he's a nice honest man, then you should be able to talk honestly about what each of you is expecting from the relationship. So try bringing it up with him. What have you got to lose? If he's not looking for the same things that you are then it isn't going to work anyway, so better to get it straight sooner rather than later!

I think my fiancé and I established in the first week that we were both looking for a long term thing and at that point thought there was a good chance that we would be able to form that kind of relationship with each other!

Answer 3

Try going through a sort of checklist when you're with him. You know like just make a mental note of what he does and how much he seems to respect you. Ex. If you go out to eat, does he wait until you tell the waitress (or waiter) that you're ready to order or does he just jump into it. When you talk to him does he look into your eyes or... elsewhere. etc. You don't always have to ask him anything, it's all in how he acts around you.

Answer 4

u need 2 ask him that it the only way for u 2 know what he wants..

Answer 5

He listens intently and remembers what you've said, he looks into your eyes, he leans in to you, he calls you and wants to see you.

Answer 6

Talk about what he likes and dont like, and then just ask him!

Answer 7

he asks to see you again
he rings you
he wants to talk to you
he introduces you to his friends without you asking

Answer 8

ask

Answer 9

Uhhhhh, maybe........ask him????