2006-11-14 06:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by sa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first question is why are you afraid of getting hurt,have you been injured in the past.Why do you feel so insecure,that you have to fight all the time.What is it about this person that scares you.Is it genuine fear or ill founded paranoia.If you feel scared of getting hurt then why do you love him.Look first you should figure out your own insecurity if genuine then take preventive measures to protect yourself if not then you should seek help to relieve your anxiety.Fighting helps no one it only worsens relationships and destroys love,happiness and trust.Know it,it has happened to me too there was someone I cared for deeply just because she fought all the time I lost all my feelings for her and in fact feared being anywhere near her for the sole fact that it would trigger a fight.Everyone hates fights and people dislike those kind of people who fight and create fights.Love,live and let live thats the motto.Hope it helps.
2006-11-14 07:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staying in an abusive relationship is worse than the pain of a break up. Be strong get a backbone and leave the situation. It is great to be single! You can enjoy all of the flavors and sizes regularly. Never become too attached to the point you couldn't leave that person in 15 mins. Do some soul searching, get inner peace and begin to love yourself. No one should fight or hurt anyone or let themselves be hurt.
2006-11-14 06:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the fighting doesn't hurt?
I can promise with all the surety of old age that you will be hurt many many times in many many different ways. Get used to it, and learn to love people even if they hurt you.
2006-11-14 06:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh, that same thing happens to me. I've tried myself to relax, not feel that the person is attacking me, but has his own point of view, as valid as mine. Considering the other person's feelings and really thinking with 'his shoes on' instead of mine has really helped me...
Sometimes apologizing works fine, as well!
2006-11-14 06:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your guard down and take the additude better to have love and lost than to never love at all!! dont live life regreting things you never know this guy could be the real thing
2006-11-14 06:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everytime u r scared of somethin u run, u've got alot of runnin 2 do ur whole life. face it or....
2006-11-14 06:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by due 21/12/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** make a choice...are u willing to risk a broken heart and give this a shot? orrrrrr, are u willing to be alone, and safe? your choice. make it.
2006-11-14 06:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP!
2006-11-14 06:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by sayitlikeitis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋