see i still call my baby father he tells me he still has feelings for me, but my boyfriend is such a good guy and he treats me so much better than my baby father ever did,but i just cant feel for him what i felt for my baby father, i dont wanna cheat on him. what do i do
2006-11-14 06:42:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl i was in the EXACT same situation!!!!!lol.I went with my gut and i went with the good guy.....my baby's father showed his true colors and cursed me out,and that's when the simply fact of him changing was fount out to be a lie!I thought to myself,my good guy would NEVER do that.....we've been in situations that we were going to stop talking,and a curse word never even left his mouth.....go with the good guy....baby fathers never change.....trust me in a couple months when he's still in his dirt,you'll be kicking yourself for letting a good thing go.
2006-11-14 06:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shana T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I unstand that you might still have feelings for this guy because he is your baby's daddy for Christ sake you guys had a child together its only logical because I'm telling you, you guys have a bond for a life time. Did you ask yourself in the mirror why did you leave the guy for in the first place? Or how about you guys have a child together why aren't you together married and living together? The reason that you guys seperated is still there no matter how much time has passed you by. Don't repeat the same mistake over and over again and again. Move forward instead of backward. If you find it that you can't love your boyfriend then I think that you should take some time from him to get yourself in order and if still the time that you have taken from the relationship you still can't then you would have to do the right thing and break up with him so that he could find someone else to love him and appreciate him for the good man he is.
2006-11-14 06:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many bad decisions can a girl make in such a short lifetime? Try sticking with one and working on your understanding of the word commitment. Your BF might deserve better than he's getting from you, and your calling you ex an checking his feelings for you is, well, just wrong. His timing is off and so are your morals.. Vanna buy a clue!
2006-11-14 06:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the key word is baby father, you didn't say boyfriend. You have to think why are you 2 together someone did something. What I am trying to say don't do the boyfriend like that, because you still have feeling for your baby father. Just break up with the boyfriend because he don't deserve that.
2006-11-14 06:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go with the daddy. If you still have feelings for each other then what are you waiting for?. Your bf is a good guy, wouldn't you like him to be happy with someone who really LOVES HIM???
And you baby, give it the chance of have his mum and daddy together. Children deserve to grow up in a family.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-14 06:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have feelings for your child's father, what you need to remind yourself everyday is how bad he treated you and how happy you are now with your new guy. How happy your child is and how important it is for the child to be in a environment that is happy and loving and not violent.
Keep your legs together and make the best choice for your child!
2006-11-14 06:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have started another relationship if you were still in love with someone else. I feel sorry for the good guy, he sounds really sweet. I hope he dumps you, and finds someone that loves him the way he deserves to be loved.
2006-11-14 06:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by puzzledamipuzzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either forget about your childs father and give your heart totally to your new an, or foget about the new man and go back to the guy you say you love more..
why hurt the new guy for spite of your own benefit...
have a heart and let him go, you will be happier in the long run and he will have the chance to find someone who will love just him...
2006-11-14 06:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you obviously not great at making decsions on your own... you have a baby daddy... just get rid of the boyfriend and be a single mom be there for your child make sure your baby daddy is there for him/her and take as much of his money as possible, and then move on to another guy... seriously if you could get money as support from the bf too, then do it
2006-11-14 06:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to stop talking to your baby's dad except when you need to talk about the baby? I'd say break up with the guy you are dating and be alone for awhile-you sound pretty messed up!
2006-11-14 06:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋