i'm a big girl and its hard to find a guy to go out with me. I'm happy with the way i am. Why do most guys look for what's on the out side? Why dose it matter, if a girl likes who she is she should be able to find a guy that likes her the same way she likes her self. some people out there are mean there rude, men expesally.
i have a really good personallity and i'm very kind hearted What do u think i should do and where could i find the right guy for me?
2006-11-14 06:40:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to have that problem, I am a big girl too ( tall) and found it very hard to find guys my size. I was teased as well but I learned The hell with them.. Its really what counts inside.... If your a good person you will find the right guy..People can be rude but the ones that are rude to you are the ones you dont want to be around anyway.. The hell with them...Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. God is good and he will be good to you.. Be around people that are going to postive around you, That will help your self esteem. Dont go looking for the right guy he will find you.. and dont go to bars you wont find anythere either.. Check into single dating clubs... of going out with the girls to a nice club and just have a good time.. Put yourself out there to be noticed.. .. you will be fine.. Good Luck to you...
2006-11-14 07:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by ceemagiclydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, a good personality and being kind hearted isn't enough for most people to create attraction.
Have you tried working out and losing weight? If you know what your problem is why don't you do something about it?
If you are adamnt that you have to find someone who will be attracted to you purely based on your personality, your dating pool is severely reduced.
2006-11-14 14:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Richard G needs to go find a cliff to jump off of. You're not helping.
Be yourself. Confidence and personal security are good, and if you're happy alone, then you'll be happy with someone too. Don't worry about guys, they're buttheads most of the time. The right one will find you.
2006-11-14 14:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! size doesn't matter you are right its the inside that counts....i know someone in this world will accept you for who you are no matter what.....god has someone for you out there, so come on cheer up........don't let anyone turn your confident down.....you have lots of love from your parents, friends, God and me, so don't listen to what people say just be yourself and someone will definitely love you.....just be care full of who you pick!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-14 14:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by miss kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size really doesn't matter, it makes the Woman unfomfortable at times especially when hse can;t handle the szie, so it's best to choose your mate accoridng to your size and that includes females as well.
2006-11-14 14:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it shouldnt matter and believe me one day u will find the perfect guy who dosen't care about what you look on the outside but will love u for who you are on the inside! remember guys are like stars, theres millions of them but only one can make ur wishes come true!
hope this helps
x
2006-11-14 14:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by love is a beautiful thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it shouldn't matter. BUT...Do you really enjoy the limitations of being big? Would you expect a guy to commit for life if he expects your to be at risk from heart problems?
2006-11-14 14:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, physical attraction is HUGE (no pun intended). You just need to find yourself a super-sized man.
2006-11-14 14:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly!!! Its all in the maturity of a man. You will find someone...But dont look for them. They will pop up when you least expect it. GUARANTEED
2006-11-14 14:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by angelaw86 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you truly are a good person, then maybe you should take care of yourself and not be fat
2006-11-14 14:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋