First of all its not my looks that are the problem. I have no problem meeting them and dating them, its just that once they really get to know me they only go so far. I am a bit cocky, but not too much. when we go out I pay for everything and I am such a gentlemen. I am pretty boy that has better style than probably all of the girls i date. Do u think this has anything to do with it? I am 19, I live alone, Downtown, single, great looking, in college, and I have two very good jobs. Whats my problem???????????
2006-11-14 06:39:36 · 17 answers · asked by TONY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at what you wrote . . . "I am pretty boy that has better style than probably all of the girls i date". You sound conceited. You're ********* probably drives them a way. You sound a little too into yourself. That's great to have self-esteem but try not to be so arogant about it. If you came off of your pedastal for a little bit you might have a chance.
2006-11-14 06:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your more into your self and your looks than you think. Looking good is great but make sure your not obsessed about your looks. Being cocky can be a turn off if you are that way all the time and what you are being cocky about. You said that once they get to know you thats when it goes bad. Maybe you need to ask the one that left why or what you did. Tell them to be honest about it so you can work on the things that you are doing wrong.
2006-11-14 06:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Missy Elliott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think u have that big of a problem i mean, your cocky but sometime you have to be ya know. I'm single and I'm a bit cocky too i also have trouble finding guys that will date me, but i have to be cocky cause there's some a**holes out there so i have to be care-full. i know what your going through, and. really its not what you have if a girl can't love you for u than that's messed you shouldn't have to always buy them things.
if your dating a girl yea the first couple of times u date you can buy but after that every other time they can buy.
good luck finding a girlfriend
love Maggie
2006-11-14 06:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by *Maggie* * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well I dont know you but with all that you said you seem to have alot going for you. If they leave you when they get to know you it may be that you arent boyfriend material, you may be just what us girls consider a "friend", you could be to pushy ( just taking that from the lil bit cocky side of you) or you may be a person that a girl isnt ready for. I think you might be looking for the wrong types of girls try going for something that you never thought you would like and see how that goes. Im not talking a complete change like Preppy to Goth but maybe Out going to a little shy. or vise versa.
2006-11-14 06:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Calie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by finding a nice quiet girl who is plain,yet somewhat presentable. Women will see you with this girl and they will want you more. Don;t ask me why-they just do. As for this bait girl after you find the right girl using the bait girl, you find a relative,brother, dorky friend for her. Some one that will treat her good.This always works. Women always think if you have a women-you must be ok-ala walking a dog in the park,which is another way to pick up Hoes.
2006-11-14 07:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, you don't have a problem, they do. Why you ask? Intimidation and insecurity. If you look good, that's a plus. If you have a good head on your shoulder, that' s a bonus. Besides, we have a whole life ahead of us to live. By the way, try hanging with the crowd that is positively going the way you want to go in life. Trust me, friends know friends and everything is going be alright! NJOY! PSS. Don't you know we are outnumbered 4 to 1! I'd say things are in our favor, don't you agree?
2006-11-14 06:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by ginufine76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to drop the sissy pretty boy sceme, try to be a little more of a MAN. Women love the pretty boy types as "friends", love the bad boy types as "lovers". I mean no disrespect, but 18 of my 30 years have been chasing women. I dont have a Don Juan rep. but I do pretty well for myself.
2006-11-14 06:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too cocky? You're all like, "I do this, I do that, I've got this, I've got that," but where's the substance? You think that where you live, what you're doing with your life, and how you look is all that there is to you. Dig deeper. Have some true genuine confidence.
2006-11-14 06:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i need to be honest to me it seems like you are way to full of yourself and most women are not into that kind of thing at all i mean we dont want a man that knows that he is all that and acts like it we want a man that knows that he is all that but isnt afraid to act like a human being instead of a stuck up *** snob cause that just is a real big turn off i mean when everything is all about you how are you supposed to make anyone else happy
2006-11-14 06:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cocky is a turn off fo a lot of women . .and maybe it is because you are picky on who you date. More like a trophy girlfriend rather than someone who is cute.
2006-11-14 06:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋